that is one way of looking at it, but to reject because of the fear of being rejected is ultimately self-defeating….you aren’t going to feel secure, and the person you’re with will feel equally insecure. that’s if it even gets to the proper relationship stage

This used to be me, I still at times struggle with this

This is why I don’t date

I did that all my life…DONT

I’m very guilty of this. Then I wonder why I’m so lonely and no one wants me. I’m a mess.

It will always be rejection unless you let them know how you feel!!!

Yesssssss…..I know a couple of them??afraid of been rejected without even knowing if they were …that is fear & insecurity……

Yes, since I have already been rejected so many times. Focusing on my kids is always the Best.

So many people do this and risk missing out on something that could turn out to be very special.

i hd nt tried at any girls yet not cause afraid of being rejected i’m still waiting for the perfect 1!!! Hehe..

Be a rare breed. A limited edition. One of a kind. Being rejected comes with the territory of being yourself sometimes. You keep your head up through ut all. A thank God he is protecting your Uniqueness from individuals who discriminated against it.

I wish to reject the one before who left me alone in pain.

Sometimes, it honestly happens, so very often, we intend to push the wrong people away, a common problem that is a seriously often mishandled error in our lives, but we can always, turn the table around, and come back to reality!

If someone rejects you, then proberly the ( it doesnt matter what kind of relationship, friend, family etc etc ) relation between you and the other or fake or not that strong as you thought

I wana reject a woman I love bcz of wat she has done to me but it so hard not evn a single day,Y

Thinking this way is a good way to end up lonely and allows the person who hurt you to win.

Could we change this one to: I am so sick of being rejected, that its easier to beat ’em to the punch.

My problem is dat I have never been rejected but I always reject everyone.To be in a relation is not a cup of my tea.

Can’t trust no damn body now a day. Everyone is going hurt you in some point and time. I rather just stay guarded.

That must be a boring life

mai ak bat tumko honestly bolna chati hu , mai mare jindagise bahut darte hu kuki mai bahut in secure feel karte hu islia mai family , perants , nd frnds ki torcher sahite but mai try karte hu ki mai ya nahi karingi but ho jate hai . or ak bat dear mai tumko mari problemko share kia iska matlb ya nahi ki mai sabka pas dya mangnaka lia nahi jo fact hai wo share kia.

The only way to be rejected is to believe you’re rejected. We focus too much on other people’s opinions and therefore if we think they’re rejecting us that we are rejected. Not so! Believe in yourself and study famous people who went thru intense rejection and rose above it Included are Albert Einstein Thomas Edison. George Washington and Sylvester Stallone.
Believe in yourself and not what someone, even an ex, says about you. You cannot fail as long as you’ve tried your best and learned from the experience

Sometimes I’m afraid to say what I feel ’cause I’m afraid they’ll ignore it or yes, reject it. So I end up not saying it. :/

We need to change our patterns- our ” typicals” and step outside of our comfort zones. If it doesn’t work, then so be it. But I think feeling rejected ( many times in some cases) comes from rushing or choosing the ” wrong” one. Be picky about who you choose- don’t settle! We are worth so much more than having to add ” rejection” to the list.

Definitely it can be very hard to trust but at the same time how do we feel when men do it to us when they also been hurt? I’m learning put all men in that category because of one man’s faults I came across. It has to be a fresh start from the firts conversation our ex’s are ex’s for reasons no need to bash the possible next.