I strongly disagree I could understand a person cheating over and over again never changing … But why do people have it in their minds that if you’re hurt you should leave? You’re not looking for reality you’re looking for a movie scene from someone’s imagination … It happens people hurt people they love you move on build stronger and keep going… Do you have any idea how many happily married couples that have been together for decades would’ve stayed that way based on advice this generation is giving.. Relationships aren’t easy and they’re not for everyone… if you can’t… Read more »

This is true! And they continue to do it over and over again! And don’t give a fuck about how they hurt you or how you once meant to them! It is all bunch of crap!

I still haven’t learned even after getting hurt again n again :'(

Learned it the hard way.

I’m tired of today’s dating atmosphere of fanboys, fuckboys, ghost boys, and confused boys that are afraid to make a commitment. Step up and be a fucking man and give her your all. You’ll never know true love until you take the risk. And for Pete’s sake, don’t risk losing a good woman that’s right in front of you because you’re afraid to get your heart broken, or because you are worried there might be something better around the next corner. You’re going to be walking a maze of corners for the rest of your life if you think that… Read more »

Love will find a way … we just need to have faith in love cz God created time , so that everything will fall into place as our Destiny Unfolds.

GIVE CHANCES- BUT it should be on CONDITION APPLY 🙂 Trust your instinct, Analyse ppl and situation well again, Balance brain and heart well & Take Calculative Risks !!
For me, Wisdom is not all abt being defensive all the time but abt taking a chance and able to handle things (pain or pleasure) well !!

I totally agree. If they hurt you & you forgive them they get complacesant & do it again. Sometime u have to put your foot down. I’ve been giving chances after chances & at the end of the day it was me been hurt time after time with no remorse. So now all of the Chances has been absorbed.

Understanding of the situation of a love one even if he hurted us is love , regrets and excuses need to happening but I think if there is love there can be second chances , empathy, compassion and understanding. Also ,forgiveness

I disagree with this. We are human. We will hurt and be hurt. A lot of times unintentionally and no matter how much you love your spouse. Follow this, and you’ll alone all of your life. Find the person is trying to be better. Working on themselves. It should mean more that they’re trying hard, not that they hurt you.

she does that again and again and again ,,,but i forgive her each time because she is the one…

I learned that loving someone with all my heart will hurt me more…

Dedicated to girls. Someday, you’ll meet the genuine love of your life. he’ll make you realize that love was worth more than the risk of losing. He will take care of you the best way he can. He’ll not just say sorry after hurting u, he’ll prove to you that he’s sincere and that he’ll never do it again. He’ll not just give you butterflies, he’ll make you breathless because he’ll hug you so tight. No matter how many times you give him reasons to walk away, he’ll stand his ground and give you reasons why he has to stay.… Read more »

That is so true I’ve learned that the hard way .there was someone in my life that hurt me over and over again and I gave her a lot of chances and you kept hurting me. That person is no longer in my life anymore I am NOT going to let that person hurt me anymore take it from me somebody that’s been throw it. They hurt you ones they will do it Again.

Not always true. No one is perfect! Now if they cheated or abusive dump their ass! Once you break that trust it’s not easy to get it back. Will always be stuck in the back of your head.

Me too, learned the hard way

things what i’ve learned

Well fucking said relationship rules amen to that ??. Learn the first time cause the second time hurts even more ??

With love comes pain. The people you love will always hurt you. You will always hurt the ones you love. But if it’s really love they will suffer for you and you would suffer for them. If you allow yourself to love you give someone the ability to hurt you. Love is a labor. Love is a risk. It’s not a safe place. You’re trusting your heart with an imperfect person. But if the good out weighs the bad then you know it’s worth it.

Learned the hard way to not give any second chances anymore.

Some times people really dont realize that their actions are hurting there partner. If you dont give a second chance that shows the lack of communication. Let them know how you feel instead of just dealing with the issue or you will get hurt over and over again

I learned it after the first time and yet I was still willing to pick up the pieces of my broken heart and put it back in his hands and if he were to knock on the door I do it again. It’s a love like I’ve never felt and one that I will never find again.

Not true. People do change. Marriage is a strong commitment. This generation is full of quitters in difficult moments. If you had a rough 2015, strive to make 2016 the best your family has ever seen. No one is perfect, always love one another and help each other. Your support to your spouse is critical.