if you really love someone you don’t hurt that person (more than once). Exeption: he does you terribly wrong and you just try to save yourself. But then he doesn’t love you, he’s just trying to control you and emotionally abusing you. You better don’t think about it and run instead.

I did this with my bf of a year and half, he was physically abusive 3rd month into are relationship and I stayed with him and he hit me so many times until I became emotionally abusive towards him and it was a never ending cycle and one night I went to bed told him it was over and was being very mean just cause I lost respect for him a long time ago, I went to bed while he went and smoked a cig, I laid next to my son, he came in rubbed my back and I told… Read more »

Although my ex did something wrong, i still loved her, i wished she would come back… Even then, she didnt want me. I decided to move on, but who cares if you love that person? Love is these days BS

You shouldn’t be with someone who hurts you, especially that it’s consistent. That’s not love, that’s routine and it’s hard to break any routine if you don’t have the right mindset

They just dont want to see the truth in the eyes. Being there, done that and seeing it over and over again with other people. If a person gets one to many chances, they wont respect you, even tho if they promise you, this are only empty promises

Depends on circumstance really, if you got hurt by being cheated on and they try to stay with you, then they’re not choosing pain, they’re just sorry they got caught out and you’d be a fool to work out a relationship around someone who’s cheated. Once a cheater always a cheater.

They have shitty self esteem. Move on.

They r choosing pain over loving themselves and love don’t hurt sorry but sometimes u can’t let ur heart override ur intellect never love someone more then yourself

Staying in a dysfunctional relationship is NOT love – it means you need to get some psychological help after you leave that abusive relationship behind.

Stop sending these stupid messages. They don’t love you they don’t respect or love themselves how are they gonna “love” you. They may have low self esteem or are afraid of change . don’t tell people to stay in a toxic relationship

Only very inexperienced people in a relationship sense think this

It depends on what kind of “hurt” it was. If there’s cheating, physical/emotional abuse, and taking for granted kind of hurt, I say it’s plain foolishness and stupidity to stay.

That person clearly doesn’t love themselves enough and doesn’t believe they deserve to be treated better. Love should not hurt!

Foolish but true.. but even the person with the biggest heart has a limit.. I tend to give too many chances but when enough is enough. . There’s no going back.. sometimes love is not enough.

No thanks . I got hurt so much its not worth it . so now if any woman I’m talking to shows any signs of a controlling , bad temper , abuse ,hatefulness I’m gone . end of relationship .

Bull fucking shit ..someone loves you they would consider you in all areas of theirs life and yours if they hurt you or themselves they don’t love you ..they would put themselves and you above anything and not do anything to hurt you both ..knowing this ..it’s called maturity and called being real and honest with yourself ..

Been there and done that, eventually you loose yourself. It takes two to work it out and it wasn’t pleasure it was love.
No one deserves to be in a broken marriage or relationship, not worth it.

If it is happened ,,his a real man,and real lover , its hard to find man like this,coz patience of every person is only limited,

Women are dumb like that but we love unconditionally and forgive. Men hold grudges over a small argument.

So true…my boyfriend Gusty didn’t see my reasons for being with him…and putting up with his Suttle ways of being bossy and controlling to me….Until that night he crossed the final bit of patience I had…and asked me to leave. ..His call and decision. ..And yet he blames me for everything and walking out on him and this relationship. ..How crazy is that? I said nothing. ..just left…because he believes in only himself. ..

Sounds like there stupid and in the wrong relationship. Love doesn’t fucking hurt

I respectfully disagree, this screams dysfunctional relationship, where someone surrenders their happiness just to please someone else who doesn’t deserve them.

It just show that the one whos been hurt still believes in the person he/she loves.. its loving unconditionally and letting go when the right time comes.. not because ur giving up.. but because u wanted them to be happy.. #justsayin

No, they’re not choosing pain over pleasure because if they love you they just don’t want to loose you as it would be more painful to loose you than you hurting them. Which I’m not saying is right, because love burns out after while when both people in a relationship don’t work on it.

old school that was called working out a marriage or relationship aka commitment. Nowadays its a me me me attitude and then wonder why relationships seem empty and BS