Be yourself while giving yourself. In other words do not change for anyone. tooo many people change to please the other person while giving up on what they believe. As long as you believe in yourself you don’t need anybody else. the right person will come along or maybe not but as long as you are true to yourself you can never lose.

It’s worse when they won’t tell you WHY? Or WHAT happened when you thought everything was going so good.

The people who truly love you don’t lose interest or hope in you despite your lack of concern or love for them!!!

True, when I fall for a man it hard. I get so excited because of his interest them get slap in the face with reality

Been there. It sucked. Guess I have my love to the wrong person who wasn’t ready for it. She differently didn’t appreciate it.

Shouldn’t be afraid of that! It happens, it’s how we learn and it’s always better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all.

I think this is it exactly…. Because I always have my guard up but when I let it down and get attached they run the other way…. I’d rather be single than deal with the games.

I think this started as my problem. But has become not allowing anyone close enough to get attached in the first place. And they lose interest because of that …..vicious cycle

It’s a bad thing to get to attached to someone, because you really don’t know how they feel, you just hear what they tell you, but some people you can’t take their word but you can believe their actions. I can write a book on relationships.

My situation is similar to this he stays interested then loose interest them when hes interested im not. Then we both are then we both are not its really complicated…but I dont like to play games like this it only fustrates me because I care for him and he knows this and I believenhe does care for me. I am ready for a STABLE RELATIONSHIP. I made this clear to him and myself this cant go on no longer. Its just so sad.

That’s a crush, not a relationship. No doubt women put too much into a relationship ,too fast. What and who filled your life before?keep returning to A and enjoy it like you always did, then if D calls you can honestly say, “Hi nice to hear from you, I was busy making decorations (or whatever) You are interesting to yourself, you must be!

This is how the story of life works for Everybody! People today don’t know what real love is anymore. The materialistic things in life are more important and never lasts. Only rare do u hear about two that are truely in love , and has no interest in materialistic things.

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Just went through this and its opened my eyes that in general we need to keep distance of some degree until its been proven their interest is true

When people say things like this, it’s emotional blackmail and puts a lot of pressure on the other person to be so responsible for someone else’s feelings. Another person can’t make you feel anything if your insecure having all the reassurance in the world will still make you feel insecure,if you keep telling them your not worth it sooner or later they will start to belive you, nothing more unattractive than being with someone who don’t think they’re worth it, get some respect for yourself you can’t control whether a person stays or leaves by trying to make them feel… Read more »

Many men just enjoy being in a woman ‘s company…they may show enthusiasm when ur together,but it doesnt mean anything until it develops into relationship.enjoy the moment but dont dwell on it

So, what is real love between a man and a woman? Real love always involves God because God is love. There is no love without God. He is the source of all love because He is love. To say it another way, you can’t have real love without God. You can, however, have something called natural affection. This is something that God built into human beings. It is the tendency to care for those of their own family or close friends. This natural affection can fail under stress. True love never fails. You can also have eros without God. Eros… Read more »

Sweetheart.
Never give up . When u let go of the past, you allow room for God to bless you with the right person. Auntie had to learn that 19 years ago. When u stop looking she will show up. Love u sweetie. You are a great guy.

Just remember it’s not you… when u learn this you will be able to come a long way in healing from dysfunctional relationships love u

Too damn late… I wish they wouldn’t kiss you, make time for you, hug you, treat you like gold, tell you your beautiful and could possibly see having a family with you, and that their happy with the way things are going and with the way you treat them, and then wake up one day and your just not good enough anymore and then act like everything is ok, and your just the greatest of friends and they didn’t just crush your heart into billions of irreparable pieces

If they are into a commitment don’t star something you can’t finish just because you feel alone, you don’t idea how much that hurt to the other person. But karma will make you pay and double, so for your own safety stop playing with other people’s feelings. Thank you.

It’s a very hurtful feeling I’m going through this now ??

That is why we should still be independent in a relationship. That is where the attraction lies, in our singlehood.

No matter how good you feel about yourself, when one loses interest… you feel so insufficient. And it’s tough to build yourself back up.