Amen! If they didn’t make the effort to save it the 1st time, they sure aren’t going to by being given more chances to hurt you!

“Or” in some cases, the realization that it is worth trying again this time with more awareness of what it takes to make it work…stick-to-it-ness!!
Our society, often, focuses too much on “instant gratification” and perfection!!
A good relationship is two imperfect people “learning” how to love each other through the good and bad times!!
#missingyouAnthonyHill

My Father said it would be worse the second time around and he was RIGHT!

If It’s True Love sometime’s it deserves a second chance! Depends on the people and the circumstances!

Sometimes time heals and u look at all the should ofs and make them all good. Takes two to Love n understand

One walks away to begin a new journy. There cannot be a turn around. Where then is the reason for a new journy?

Should of saw this a long time ago… then I wouldn’t had given my ex 20 plus bullets… smh back at me… what a shame

Maybe John should read this! Not one word from him since Oct. 25th when I told him how sick I was and was going to the Dr! Ended up in the hospital for 10 days with double pneumonia! He never called to see if I was alive! My own fault…I let him back into my life 4 times after he pulled this shit….no more! I’m done!

There’s no “shoulds” folks. There’s no guidebook. Do what feels right for you. Life is short and none of us get out alive xxx

True! But giving a second chance with a positive mindset does not mean giving the other person a bullet. It only means that we are ready to go the extra mile for making a relationship work especially when the other person is ready to give in his best! I feel that a second chance be given.

This is true! I should’ve never went back to my abusive controlling ex last year! It was round two of the exact same bullshit! But twice the amount of pain!!! Fuck giving second chances!!

Ir really depends. I’m not the second chance kind of guy. If they don’t want me in their lives, I walk away and respect their decision. I just remove them from life entirely. I already have family and friends that love being part of my life, one person can’t ruin that. ?

Without some kind of epiphany I find that most people don’t change. The best guarantor of future behavior is past behavior.
Or,” Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, I must be stupid or I like it.”

And also like keeping in touch with kidnappers after they’ve set you free. An ex should always remain an ex.

I do believe in second chances in certain aspects of life. Plus it depends what has caused the reason for a need for a second chance. Everyone is different and will deal with these circumstances in very different ways. In the case of a relationship I personally would be giving no second chances. I learnt that lesson very harshly. And it wasn’t even cheating. Doesn’t matter how much you love that person if they have broken the trust between you it is very very hard to rebuild. You just can’t help thinking no matter how good it is when are… Read more »

Its not always true .Lack of Communication creates lots of confusions . Ego comes ahead to express guilty realisation. Wise persons should judge the situation and come forward for second chance.

Sometimes that bullet shoots both ways when you play that game.

Yes that is true but it could also mean giving someone a chance to do it right. Second chances are not ALWAYS a bad thing.

Depends on the offence but . .. . Never give a sociopath a second chance and never go against your instinct for self-preservation. If it feels bad, it is bad.

This doesn’t have to be just for an ex – family, friends, and a potential boyfriend/girlfriend as well. I’m done giving more that enough chances.. I may be a giving person, but I’m definitely not stupid.

My ex bf has once said he loves another woman n don’t love me anymore . I broke up w him. However, aft much thoughts he said he say the wrong things . I still have feelings for him. What will u do if u will me?

Lmfao ! Yea dont fuck up the first time..once a cheat always a cheat will never be any trust again so just move on

I don’t know I cannot really conclude with this one. I would agree for the most part. It really depends on the circumstances and what happened. Everyone has the potential to learn and grow from their mistakes and become bigger people. I have witnessed some that break up and get back together again with the strongest and most passionate love I have ever seen. Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect. But I will admit that once that trust is broken it’s damn hard to get it back again and it probably won’t be the same. But it again… Read more »

Everyone deserves a second chance its the third and forth that are a no no

In life you can ask for second chance but in relationship dont ask for second chance…be loyal to your partner..you cant get second chance.