I’m not afraid of losing him, but I feel as though I’m important/special to him when he updates me and tells me what he’s doing and where he’s going.

No it means she’s insecure and doesn’t trust you.

No it means there’s jealousy in the relationship. #destinedtofail

Trust is key in any relationship. If you don’t trust your loved one to go out on their own, you don’t really love your loved one

I don’t care about who he’s with just that I like to know what’s going on..I am a werid planner type person!

If she is doing in a jokingly sorta way that’s fun,but if it’s a fight every night when you get home ……move on and tell her to get help,she has Daddy issues!

I hate this saying they shouldn’t get mad if it bothers us….IF they would feel the same should the shoe be on the other foot. It’s about respect, trust and thinking of another’s feelings.

Trust is a huge part of any relationship. If you don’t trust each other, it’s done !!

Lmfaos ….. That will be the day when a girl does that with me!!!!!

If a girl did that with me … Then I quess she needs to think about her self and her insecurities … Trust is number one … I’m old enough to know where my loyalty is when I’m with someone … I never cheat and never will …

No she is insecure and he is not giving her enough so she has no doubt no matter what she can’t lose him. Love real love does not cause the other to fear losing the other one.

She’s probably not ready to be in a relationship

Same goes for guys… Especially in a long distance relationship

Telling your partner where you’re going or who you’re with is something you should do anyway. Saves worry and would help with trust

Often times it means that you are jealous and full of huge insecurities and if you continue to treat him like that you will lose him

You should never feel worried to lose your partner to someone else. If you are, then you’re in the wrong relationship or you’re insecure and shouldn’t be in one. It’s still a courtesy to let each other know where you’ll be and trust them and not blow up their phone.

If you flip out when a girl/guy asks you this,You are deffo hiding something as it wouldn’t be a issue to answer it. Women are naturally curious and would ask this sort of thing in general conversation; but if she keeps asking as if to try and catch you out eg “you never said Sarah was there as well as bill,Jessie,tom, dick or harry she has issues and wouldn’t be happy no matter what you say,people who have been hurt in past relationships are usually control freaks who use their past hurts as emotional abuse towards their new partner,its so… Read more »

For a long distance relationship, yeah. I want to know.

This is stupid! If he’s not given you a reason there should be no flipping out unless you, yourself are insecure. If that’s the case you need to work on you before getting into a relationship.

once or twice is sweet, but too much = too insecure

It’s called respect. You don’t tell each other where you’re going and who you’re with because they don’t trust you, you do it because it’s the respectful thing to do!!! Only people who have something to hide don’t like telling their significant other what they’re doing and who they’re with. #truth

Not true. Insecurity is the mark of a troubled past or emotional issues. But if a girl worries, that’s fine as long as you have nothing to hide.

Dear guys,

If your girl wonders who you’re with or what you’re doing, it means you must have effed up and now she doesn’t trust you or she has trust issues and wasn’t even ready to be in a relationship to begin with.

Sincerely,
Ain’t nobody got time for that

I disagree with this one. If your relationship is safe and secure, a girl doesn’t need to feel this way unless she has emotional immaturity issues. Insecurity is the biggest killer of relationships from both sides and can easily to turn more unhealthy relationship issues like control and manipulation.

I don’t want my girl afraid of losing me to someone else….. If that’s how she feels, then I have failed her as her man!