And if you have a happy relationship, which many don’t, the bitterness of past hurts and rejection should take a back seat to your current love. Concentrate on the happiness your partner gives you and the joy they bring to your life.

Sometimes what man can do also woman can do but its really hurt if man notice that girl do that to him that is really hurt for man……..but they not notice if man do a cheating they just say sorry and a girl hearts is always give a forgiveness to all man that hurt her heart……

Same for the women. Having a lot of men doesn’t make u. Being FAITHFUL makes u a woman

Living as your heart dictates and being conscious enough to share those wants with your partners is being a man.

I made a statement in general. It was not my intention to generalize. There’s a difference. I didn’t say all men.

Unless your Polyamorous and loyal to each one or you are all loyal to one another. (Since some Poly people are one man 2+ wives and some modern time ones are maybe 3 guys 3 women)

Well we can at least agree to disagree about what it means to generalize. Apparently that means different things to different people.

The only dogs I like are the canine variety. And even regular, normal, average guys have the ability to use and abuse a woman, as seemingly innocent women can do to men. The snake comes in all forms – and genders.

Men play around to impress other men. Women just think they’re pigs.

It’s obvious that even people who have found love and happiness in a good relationship still carry the wounds from the past. Most of us do. But when you’re with someone who makes you happy, they deserve the focus to be on them, not the past.

Yes! Some men need more than 1 woman for many reasons but ultimately if they do that, they are not completely happy and satisfied with their. #1 woman. You don’t want to be that #1 or #2 or.any of his women

I have no idea. I was just hoping for an objective discussion with some personal anecdotes. Not a full on debate. I’m a relatively attractive woman, nice, funny, educated and not successful in love. I understand the anger and frustration but if I was with the one I love (long story), you wouldn’t even see me much on Facebook.

Absolutely agree!
I will be lucky to even have a woman as a friend let alone a woman for a relationship. But when i do she will be the only one who i will cherish!

Having ‘one’ makes you a man. Having a bunch makes you a slag/slut!!! Don’t let your cock rule your head guys… If you’ve got a lady you love like I have. Do the right thing and stay faithful/true ?? Otherwise you’ll be fucked. Get a grip ‘boys’……

It’s not in the quantity, but the quality of 1 good woman to 1 faithful and true man.

It be a cold day in hell before men are faithful, not being a debbie downer but I’m just spilling facts.

wait what ??? who are you to tell me what a man should act like, and from the look of the comments, what a woman should act like.

sleeping with lots of people doesn’t make me any less of the gender i choose to be, i have personally been in a relationship for just under 2 years now, i am no more of a man that i once was.

BULLSHIT! If a man chose not to commit himself, no one can say you sleeping around doesn’t make you a man. And commitment doesn’t make you a man either. It’s living by your own standards and wishes, what makes you a true man.

Unfortunately women aren’t interested in the faithful type of guys. They go for the models and cry when he cheats on her. We usually never choose who’s right for us because we rather be with who looks better.

Said the Man that’s NEVER experienced the JOYS of KINGS LIFE. “Why commit to drinking milk from only one COW, when you can get milk delivered from a succession of calls throughout your life; each one younger and healthier and whose milk is more delicious than the last????

“having a whole bunch of women does not make you a man.” …?? really? Then why are most women marrying men, men that my GF works with, who used to sleep with a lot of women??? I know that it sounds nice to say that “real man” do not sleep around with different women, but the reality is that most women are attracted to men with experience and who understand women. The only way a man can do so is by getting to know a lot of women and sleeping with different women. If a man does not, they end… Read more »

Boys goes around looking for girls while a man stay loyal with his woman

Same thing goes for women

I expect younger men to be somewhat more promiscuous, and some younger women too, but when guys my age (over 50) act like horny teenagers, all I can think is creepy, dirty old man.

I have never been attracted to or respected philandering men because they have no respect for me or any woman. Some women like “pigs”. They’re also delusional enough to think they can change a guy like that.