I mustered up my courage to speak my mind! I passed the “go talk to the vase you choose” message straight to him.

Sigh, sometimes it’s best kept to yourself, unfortunately.

Noooo. If you’re wrong, you’re wrong. & If they really love you, they’ll tell you that you’re wrong but continue to love you.

And they should be considerate enough too listen

Otherwise He is just a stranger not your lover

Not in a relationship

But it’s wrong when you don’t say what you feel.. Not mind readers ?

depends on how you speak your mind.
If you speak it in a shitty disrespectful way then no one really cards what you have to say to them.
Its not what you say; its how you say it.

Yea that seems to be a problem. Why can’t express how I feel without being attacked for it

Yes that’s true …wrong assumption get your relationships in trouble ..

i am feeling that it is true that when someone love me but no matter tome dont think about negative if worry about anything is wrong . it is relationship love//

If try to say what’s in mind .. it seems like it get all tie wrong. . Is like keeping just all just too one self.

*sigh* Would like to finally find a long-term relationship where you are still able to do this after a few years…

So true in all relationship!

Be yourself instead of talking the bs on yourself and on others and showing who you are in actions as well with who you are and there should not be misconceptions

No you can sugar coat something you know is going to offend them. Just because you’re stable doesn’t mean you can be an ass

When a person speaks their mind, often times others feel attacked and respond by striking back. Be careful how you speak your mind!

So true … Shouldn’t change your self when in a relationship and never feel wrong on your self worth

I do.. sometimes he understand, sometimes it leads to arguments but most of the times, he just doesn’t care. 🙁

The art of communication is not mastered by just knowing what to say and how to say it. A big factor is knowing when to say it. So often people sit back and say nothing when something really needs to be said. It could be an idea, a suggestion, an observation, a criticism…but for some reason they don’t want to speak up.They may be afraid of hurting another person, looking mean or foolish, or opening a can of worms that will make a mess in everyone’s lives. Sometimes it seems like staying silent is the wiser choice.

So true! So that any person like past old GF/Date GF will leave you alone instead kept fitting n sit around as she not been informed as they wasted their times and yours! Move on and grow! It’s your job to let those past GF to get their own life! Smh

Well…. Some people use this as an excuse to be insensitive and not care about their impact on the other partner. It’s all about balance. Speak with sensitivity and honesty without repercussions would be my aim.

Two-way communication is essential if it’s going to work. You should both feel safe talking to each other about anything and everything.

That has more to do with them loving you enough to allow you to be comfortable enough to share your thoughts with them. And you knowing how to speak your mind without being condescending.

Absolutely shouldn’t feel like your walking on eggshells. You should be able to speak your mind and have your opinions and emotions facial expressions ect with no fear and get attacked for it!!!