Some relationships will have more sex than others. It all depends on compatibility and how much need the partner has for it.

There are a lot of doubters here. These men are actually everywhere, you just have to know what to look for. Most are not in bars or clubs unless they’re with their friends. Most are not disrespectful to strangers, as the saying goes, a man on a date who is kind to you but unkind to the waitress is not a kind man. Many, like myself, have actually been used for sex and ditched in the same fashion that typically happens to women, and contrary to popular belief these men are not happy about getting it with “no strings attached”.… Read more »

There are too many distractions in life for some people to want a relationship, they put themselves and their selfish needs before anything else

I’m not being rude here, but it you are going to make this statement remotely true you should put the word “just” inbetween want and sex.

You don’t make relationships by having sex! That’s fucking stupid as fuck! REAL relationships usually have respect, loyalty ETC

Sex can wait, nigga

And also, I’d rather have sex AFTER marriage which is the RIGHT thing to do
[well, in my opinion, that is]

People who just have sex before marriage are wrong

Why is it that it has to be one or the other? It is just one piece of the puzzle that is wanted, it is no less important than all the other things that are wanted in a relationship! It’s like saying I want a person who is honest and will take honest with boring!!

See I feel (at least for myself) sex is a big part of a relationship. I don’t feel that two people who are not 100% sexually compatible will be truly happy. Now that doesn’t mean I’d cheat on or mistreat the girl I’m with, but if the sexual compatibility isn’t there, neither is the relationship for me.

Sex is more important to some than others. The key is finding someone compatible on ALL levels. The Lynch pin of any relationship should be friendship.

In a real good relationship she will smile after sex!!!!

if there is a real relationship, then loveer except love nothing ready to give . because it is real by which a lver can make her/him self jewel.

All these guys that are saying they dont need are straight up lying…. or they all have had bad sex! When you make love to your partner. Its something that can not be topped. Sexual chemistry is definitely needed to have a great relationship. Meeting each others sexual needs are apart of a relationship. So come on people lets be real

It used to be like that with me. Until I grew up. Now a pretty face is just a pretty face and sex is just sex. It’s not a priority and doesn’t mean anything unless its with someone I love and that someone loves me. Though it was a main part of my marriage when we first started, through trials and tribulations, I’ve come to realize, while sex is important, our relationship is better off not basing it on sex. I love my wife and love being with her but there’s more communication about the way we feel, which is… Read more »

I am one of those guys. While sex is nice, it cannot sustain a relationship and should be secondary to other things, such as trust, honor, loyalty and communication.

Yes guys want or need sex. But, the deal is can they have a serious relationship when its not the most important part of the relationship? Can you care on s conversation, cuddle, snuggle, care about what going on in her life, or do you just want between her legs? Yes, most women love sex, but its not the most important thing, the affection, the caring, the general respect of a man, that we want.

95% of man feel sex is a huge part of the relationship. They are visual. Women are more looking for true love in relationship.

Bahahaha. …what a joke. No such thing …dated a “nice guy” and he cheated on me ….dated another and he went to his ex gf for relationship advice and broke up with me hahaha and he said this exact quote to me when we first met….that should have been the first red flag !!

true but honestly it is a big factor. .. if a man or a woman is in a sexless relationship, someone’s gonna be unhappy and give up and find love elsewhere. .. I know I would want to be with someone in a serious thing and not a fling but if there’s no physical relationship then a big thing is missing and I won’t be happy and I’ll abandon that relationship

I would love a relationship that cannot be corrupted by the physical and find someone to love you first before that commitment happens. I want the real.

true intimacy can be contained in other ways ,other than sex ,even though sex is nice with a caring ,loving person .nice touching ,caressing ,and intimate conversations.

Exactly I am one of those guys who don’t look for sex. I want a serious relationship with no games.

I love sex. But sex doesn’t make the relationship. The sex can be amazing but still won’t keep a man to stick around. It takes a real connection to keep the relationship going. I need a real man. Not no boy that wants to fuck than leave to go fuck the next

I’m pretty sure sex is part of a real relationship @ some point… Perhaps it meant, not all guys want just sex… I mean I know guys that don’t want sex from me & I don’t want it from them, we call each other friends. And that’s where that relationship stays, the friend zone….

I’m agree this post. if u find happiness in sex then u can get it for few minutes but if u find happiness in a good relationship then u can get it for long time or life time.so don’t create relationship for sex……..

Lol, where are they then?