Amen sometimes the peiple we love most can the people that hurt us the most .I’m deeply in love with my girlfriend but I understand she is not lovey dove but I’m a regular that like the once in a while hugs and kisses and I miss you baby but that’s stuff you shouldn’t force out of people that’s when you come to a realization that one of two she don’t love you or u bored her and either one shouldn’t be a choice for them if you are truly in love

I always do that… But I am not going to have any feeling and neither I am going to try to tell him…. He is materialistic and care more about physical appearance… It’s been more than 5 yrs and I came to know about it now… What an idiot I am… Wondering if I am overreacting ??
P.S all that matter to me is feelings, thoughts.. But right now I am numb…

Yesz !!! But it will be a day…. someone gonna do t same thing to him !! ND he’s gona wish one of mine

If I wrote that much, then I need to say it and I send it. How they respond is not under my control, but that doesn’t change who I am.

I would write a long message even though I know they don’t care, i don’t delete it instead I press send. ‘Coz for me, whatever happens at least I reveal my real feeling. At The end i will regret nothing, it all up to them how to react! It is better left said than unsaid. ?

Like only a billion times, ugh! Sometimes I just say fuck it and finish it or just post the half anyway. Ha!

Actually, I do this quite often. But I usually feel much better for having “said” it and getting it off my mind. Hugs *S*

No. I post it om my wall and share my angst to the entire world! Then, after 30 minutes and some likes and comments, I delete it. 😉

I think it is more therapeutic for the writer, than for the one it was intended for. I think it helps you realize what all is wrong with the relationship. Tear it up it is time to move on.

Lol like once a week to the same person. (Not really that often, but it seems more often than not) It’s hard wanting to tell someone something important but feeling like they dont care. Maybe they do, but just thinking “maybe they dont care” is enough to make you not send it. You end up just sending
them something else

I do. I use to write these long emails to my ex, the save them on my drafts but a few weeks ago, I started writing to my future hubby… I know its crazy but I sometime cant contain the love in me & share it with this soul mate of mine that I haven’t met yet & for all I know may possibly never meet

Sometimes it’s good to get it out even if they don’t read it or they delete. At least you got it off your chest.

If they don’t care, you shouldn’t even bother to writing to them at all.

Now this is so funny.. I have 23 pages of letters I have written but never sent. And I probably never will. Some are hateful and some are anger and some are trying to forgive. It’s really good therapy, it helps keep you from returning to a toxic relationship reminds you of all the reasons you left.. It works.

Been there… But this just isn’t meant for women to men. It’s actually anyone. Men can love a woman and she not care. And woman to woman and man to man.

I either end up sending it, and kicking myself over it, or I try to avoid them after I’ve sent it. I get weirdly anxious about writing something personal to someone.

To my mom I’ve been writing letters over and over only to end up changing it in some way or throwing it out (yes I’m old fashioned, I still use a pen/pencil and paper) 😀 😛 but I’ll get what I want said out and mail it to her.

I just text no matter wat… They reply or x… As long we let them know dat we really care … Today they NVR appreciate u… But one day…when we stop caring.. They will know

Use to, but got tired of biting my tongue & holding it all in…now the truth hurts don’t it

if he/she didn’t ‘hear’ you before, they aren’t going to now! Feelings being validated won’t happen, just stop it.

I continue texting and send it, even though I think he doesn’t care, i always believe that I should say what’s on my mind. Atleast he can know that when he messes up it’s all his fault because I tried to be as open and honest as i could have been.

I’ll just send it anyway, cos whatever I was taking so much time and energy to say must have been something important to me and so it’s better when it comes out of me than staying in, at least I wouldn’t feel like I didn’t try… but yes, it is a waste of your time and energy, although being reassured that they really don’t care even after your vain attempts might help you forget them easier… people can be such assholes…

Or you do send it and get no reply. Always shows someone’s true colors, even if they are just a friend.

Or you finally get to the point and say – I’m done trying to KISS YOUR ASS !