I don’t do games…open your mouth and tell me what’s up?

If by not care you mean cheat with the person ten years younger.. I got it

this should really say…. “she pretends not to care for you cuz you spent so long showing her that you didnt care for her, so now she is distancing herself from you to make you see what youre losing. should take that as a warning that something is seriously wrong and she is almost at her limit… change it before its too late”

Then she will discover that what goes round, comes around…

People shouldn’t do this. Stupid tests that girls have, then they wonder how things got so complicated.
“I don’t know what I did to make him leave. i just kissed that guy in front of him to make him jealous.”

No actress …HERE….
But, no games… Guys… If you like her let her know… No MIND GAMES PLEASE;))))

This makes me think she doesn’t care. In turn I will leave her alone because I will think that she doesn’t care. Basically, this is how you lose a man.

Fuck that.
Stupid silly games.

i cared for her and her little boy more than my own life and that wasn’t enough i hand wrote a letter to her with my heart on and got hurt.

She claimed she was pretending for 4 months straight, refusing to hold my hand, let me put my arm around her, or kiss her and than looked down on me for not realizing she was joking the entire 4 months. She wouldn’t let me care for her, she just let me walk away hurt every time.

And that’s misleading, if you have to play mind games to see the other persons feelins than that’s not a healthy relationship.

Girl: am I pretty? Boy: no Girl: do you even want to be with me forever? Boy: no Girl: do you even like me? Boy: no Girl: would you cry if I walked away Boy: no She’d heard enough and was hurt… She walked away with tears in her eyes The boy grabbed her arm Boy: you’re not pretty…… You’re beautiful Boy: i don’t want to be with you forever….. I need to be with you forever Boy: i don’t like you…… I love you Boy: i wouldn’t cry if you walked away…… I die if you walked away Boy… Read more »

stupid. That’s why you lost him lol

If she’s pretending she doesn’t care, it’s probably because she thinks you don’t so she’s trying to minimize the hurt.

Stupid move.
In a world full of head gamers, tampering with someone’s ability to trust your words or actions is a quick way to get dropped..

It’s not necessarily games. Emotions are hard to just put on the table for everyone. No one likes to be that vulnerable…it’s our nature to protect ourselves from pain. Opening up in our relationships is a learned skill & takes some longer than others. Don’t be so harsh everyone. With the right guy a girl who has been hurt will eventually learn to stop doing this.

If a woman in a healthy relationship wants to know if you care, then she will ask, she will talk, she will discuss it. Those sort of games are immature, cruel and cold; the sign of some messed up games that have no place for a good relationship

that’s a big joke feeding guys full of crap, no woman no grown mature woman an wants a guy paying other women compliments, your sexy I want to have sex with you, cause if he really did love her, he would be respectful and not do that..cause if she showed that kind of bad attention to another guy he would be pist…..

Unfortunately, this will have a negative effect on most guys. Why? Because not all guys are tuned into the fact that there are subtleties to emotions. Guys are SIMPLE. Guys will read the uncaring attitude as an actual statement and will act accordingly. Because of this, the relationship may die.

Again, this won’t happen in every relationship and not all guys will react the same way, but in general, this is not a way to garner attention.

Yeah if she’s 12

WHAT kind of woman does that to a man she loves? That’s not love, that’s abuse

This needs to be removed. Suggesting this is appropriate behaviour is ridiculous. If you love someone, you are in, all the way. If you need to “test” the relationship, then clearly, you do not trust it. As you guys have said, relationships only work if two people firstly know and love themselves. If you accept who you are, you shouldn’t need the acceptance of another and therefore, should not resort to playing games.

You can’t have a mature relationship with a person who is immature. Never pretend. Always speak and show how you feel….be real.

how did this arrive as a relationship rule!?

Bullshit….High School Games…