I disagree. It may not be by your choice but because of the choices your partner makes.

So you can’t chose to fall in love but you can chose to fall out of love…… uhm no.

No “choice” in falling out of love! Sometimes the other person, gives you PLENTY of reason! Lie after lie, broken promise after broken promise! You can love someone with everything you have in your soul, and sometimes, THEY choose to let you fall out of love! Can you fix that crock of shit, please?

While there is some truth to this, the last sentence is fairly idealistic . Situations abound which require us to detach ourselves and force ourselves to fall out of love for the sake of self preservation

I can buy this! Life is full of choices! When it comes to Christmas, don’t miss the choice there either. God came into the world to redeem mankind because there aren’t enough good deeds that can be done in this life to earn eternal life. Receive the gift of life this Christmas. Don’t make the choice of rejecting Him!

It is a choice, letting go. Because you can choose to stay & be together no matter how ugly things are. You can choose to overlook your unhappiness, however what you cant choose not to feel is to be numb. Its like when you’re really tire an d you put your left foot over your right foot just to make it home

I do not totally agree with this. I think the other person can do things to make you not love them. Physical and mental abuse. Affairs etc.

Everyone has a choice but a lot of the time one or the other desides that it’s easier to walk away from a relationship than to figure out how to fix it , then they start another relationship and guess what , the same issues come into their next relationship , go figure , it might be easier to talk a walk for change but no relationship is perfect , it’s a lot of work to make one work

I disagree it can be due to the choices that your partner makes.

I don’t think your partner suddenly turns into a jerk after your married…there were red flags that you Chose to ignore. Relationships take work that you do or don’t do. You can only have a successful relationship when each one puts the other’s needs first. I will be married to the same man 50 years in May of 2015. Think about it…50 years

I disagree with the last part too because how you’re treated in a relationship can influence whether or not you stay in love. Sometimes you can’t because it’s mentally, physically or emotionally unhealthy to do so.

I can honestly argue with this.

You don’t CHOOSE to fall out of love. Especially if you have depression. Especially if the person wronged you.
I wish I still loved him, but at the same time I don’t.

You CHOOSE to end it. You CHOOSE to do what’s best for yourself.

you dont fall out of love by choice…

Totally disagree with the last part. I was madly in love until I was cheated on and lied to. I just never felt the same. I tried so hard to force a love that was gone. It is possible to fall out of love when you have taken so much b.s. and can no longer see the person you fell in love with.

I disagree nobody falls out of love by choice it’s usually a heartbreak that happens over and over till you just don’t feel the same any longer

You don’t fall out of love by choice, one may get tired of being verbally, emotionally, and mentally abused or just tired of being there for someone who doesn’t appreciate them

Its all choices and hard work

You can’t fall out of love. If you “fall out of love” then you never truly were in love to begin with..

I think you can fall out of love by the other person’s actions or dishonesty where you feel pushed to the point you feel miserable all the time .

You absolutely DO have the power to choose who you fall in love with. People fall in love with losers and then wanna blame everyone but themselves but guess what, you chose that person. Take some responsibility for your life and quit playing the victim. Codependency 101.

If you don’t fall in love by choice, then falling out of love isn’t by choice either… It doesn’t all of a sudden become a choice. It’s either a chioce or it isn’t… ‘in love’ just happens. It’s a matter of actually loving someone once you see them for who they are & at their worst. Being “in love” with the best of someone is easy. It’s loving them at their worst, that is the true test.

If someone treats you shitty you’re more than likely gonna fall out of love and fall for someone that treats you better.

This is the perhaps the first one that I have seen since I liked the page that I don’t agree with…

Actually, if the person you love chooses to treat you like garbage and you keep trying, and fall out of love because of their hateful words and actions, that’s not by choice. That’s by the string of events.

You don’t fall out of love by choice. If your love given is never nourished, it just happens no matter how hard you try.