It’s so funny how some people just don’t understand this.. Having an emotional connection with someone that isn’t your partner can hurt just as much.

FB messages and call logs too.

TRUTH!!! If you wouldn’t do it next to them then it’s shady and cheating.

This is so very true & something I think people don’t really acknowledge. Hiding things like that from your partner shows a lack of respect & hurts more that most people understand.

I’ve done this before YES but the only reason is because when I’ve been talking with my old friends before she ask me ¿Why do you text her first? “It seems like you text her first” etc,etc,etc.. I deleted cause I just don’t want argue about it, cause by the time she see the message, she have to say something about it even when the text message is saying “hi, how you doing?” So NOT all the times is cheating. Every person have to feel free to send a text to an old friend or just a friend not worrying… Read more »

I’ve always said that but now a day people claim it as not being able to have there privacy or own space. If you’re not ready to have a relationship with out secrets, fully transparent, than dont have one it all.

If someone you’re in a relationship w/ (married, dating, cohabiting).. continually accuses you of cheating on them.. you might want to check out what they’re doing.. they are more than likely CHEATING ON YOU!!! Believe me.. I was once married to a guy who always accused me of cheating on him when he was actually having an affair on me. So sad, but true. =)

One thing annoys me most is when they hide in the bathroom on their phone, or need to wait for you to go out the room to read a text, the I’m
Working lie but you find out they not working.

Cheating starts way before any physical contact actually happens.

Hiding anything in a relationship is cheating, that’s how it starts. “Cheating is the most disrespectful thing one human being can do to another.”

Emotional cheating.. its grounds for my divorce. Only he kept trying to hide his phone instead of deleting the messages. I then forwarded all those texts to my phone.

hiding anything,not telling the whole truth, wording it so as though you downplay something,etc…it’s all cheating.

Deleting messages, calls, pictures….anything that you wouldnt want your spouse to see or know about is cheating.

Hiding anything in a relationship is cheating your partner. Communication, honesty, peace of mind, trust, and faith in you as a caring partner. A relationship cannot survive without these things; they are the foundation of any relationship.

Yeah, if she’s just your ” friend ” why would you delete the conversation????

That is so true, if you already had sex with other men or women in your mind that are not your partner, you already cheated and he or she probably isn’t satisfying you in one area or more than one if this is happening. I have gone through this myself and I gotta say that it is very true, if you are imagining yourself with other guys or girls then you are not happy in your relationship, something is missing. Because, if your were truly happy with that person then why are you imagining yourself with other people? If he… Read more »

Yeah…if you’re not happy with the relationship and don’t want to work things out, leave first instead of finding someone else first.

Completely agree. Or if you feel like you have to hide the fact that you’re hanging out with them as “friends”

a message or a phone call to ur ex is even worse !!

True also alot of cheating going on on facebook

Don’t mistake cheating for doing what’s correct though…
If you feel you HAVE to keep a secret… then you’re ALREADY in the wrong relationship, or already in a failing one.

Basically anything you wouldn’t want your significant other to see and anything you have to hide or delete… You’re already there.

If you have someone’s name under another name. .you’re only fooling yourself. ..sooner or later the truth comes out. .. plus, why cheat. .just break up and go out with the person your being sneaky with… no one deserves to be plan B..

It’s called Emotional Cheating and it’s much worse than physical cheating! When you share your raw emotion with someone other than your partner, you have nothing left to give.

Cheating is the most disrespectful thing one human being can do to another. If you aren’t happy in a relationship, end it before starting another one. If you cheat on someone who is willing to do anything for you, you actually cheated yourself out of true loyalty.