Sometimes you just can’t help but hold on when they are exactly what you have been waiting for.

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take a knife and cut that cactus out of your life 😛 end point …!!

exactly 🙁

And so I slowly let go…take the thorns out one by one. Love this analogy!

If that person doesn’t love you, why even bother? I’m not going to emotionally get hurt over someone who doesn’t love me. Just move on. You don’t need that person. As time goes by they’ll probably realize what they lost.

Oh don’t I know it. It’s like being set on fire.

Very true, but at times it’s hard not to

true! it can hurt you completely! the amount of love you are giving and in return you are getting absolutely nothing in return!!! so heart breaking and it kills you from inside..

life is too short to be wasting it on someone who hurts you…

But loving someone unconditionally is like worship ! Itis thhe way to live life fullest,without any expectation of being loved in return. If your love is true then it inspired you / motivate you all the time !!! 🙂 We have only one life…atleast we should love someone in the way that..on their death we are the one in their,last memories!:)

The pain is almost intolerable

The painful truth. And it’s worse when you don’t know.

I’ve finally let go

People choose to love eventhough they may get nothing at the end ….. and it is brave to give a try and u never know what gonna happen .

Been here… Have the cactus puncture holes to prove it.. =(

yea.. ive gone through that.. it seemed like i was holding on to nothing and wasting my time with this person when i could of been with someone better..

Its damn painful but its better to make an effort and love them truly so there will be some hope that one day they will get to realize about your feelings for them at least you’re trying so hard to make the relationship work, than not to love at all. Its like giving up before even trying.

It’s best to let go. False hope leads nowhere. If someone wants you in their life, you will know by their actions and words – they respond, they make time for you and only you, they have eyes for you only….if they don’t want you, you’ll have situations where you ask, why doesn’t he answer my text as quickly as I answer his, why did he say someone’s pic was sexy, why is there always an excuse not to see me…the answer is he just doesn’t want me and won’t tell me…it’s hard to believe especially when you get tidbits… Read more »

Wanting to be in a relationship with someone is what you want. What about what they want? If they want to be happy and you care about that person then why not either give them the freedom to choose or love them enough to still be kind to them by embracing wholeheartedly the fact they will rpbably never want to be with you.

Been there!! Yes, You can love someone, but not at the risk of not acknowledging your self worth first!! You need to give yourself the self love & respect you deserve first & know when to walk away from someone who can’t give you the same in return….trust me you’ll find that person who will acknowledge your worth when you send out your self love vibe into the universe!!

But SOMETIMES, it’s better to love and get hurt than to not love at all.