As best said by Bob Marley: “If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. … Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the one worth suffering for.”

Sometimes you just need to take on what the other guy wouldn’t and if she comes to appreciate what you’ve done when she becomes whole you’ll have your queen for a lifetime, thats what I’m after with mine.

This is BS! If she cheated or ruined your trust and ripped your heart out you have a choice to forgive and try again or move on! There is a chance she’s changed but unfortunately it’s small!

False… Depends on the “type” of pain you’re going thru/being put thru… Doesn’t make ANY SENSE to be “patient” when you’re not being treated the way you should because of something they go thru…

You have some wonderful and profound statements…this is NOT one of them!!

Wonder what the reaction would be if we replaced “real man” with real woman?

That’s stupid. What if she’s a cheating bitch?

That’s bullshit… thats saying you can have a girl that’s all fucked up in the head and isnt ready for a relationship therefore treating you like shit and you’re supposed to take it? Nah, thats how divorces are made. How about you find the right person and break it off with the shit ones. Get it right the first time…

I’m sorry but I am a real man and I gave up on a bitch who was shooting heroin, smoking crack, stealing my money and cheated on me several times and the first time in 13 years I had her arrested for assault I was the bad guy….my kids and I are better off without her.

A real man wants his women happy…with, or without him

I like most of the posts on here….but this one…not so much. If a girlfriend of mine was being put through pain by her man (I am talking cheating, verbal and/or physical abuse, lack of compassion or love) I would tell her to leave. Why would I tell my male friends any differently? I absolutely would tell him to leave and find someone to treat him the way he deserves to be treated. We are women, not gods, we deserve to get what we give, same as men. I will step down off my soap box now.

Thats just a bunch of BULLSHIT. A real man isn’t going to stick around being hurt anymore than a real woman is. A real man isn’t going to put up with that. If the pain is making someone lose themselves they need to bail if need be!

Gotta draw the line between determination and desperation somewhere…like right before you loose your self respect….

And a real women would never put a real man in the position to feel pain, just saying.

It depends on what kind of woman you have. This can’t be applied all the time

Disagree. A real man doesn’t allow himself to be used and taken for granted.

I’m calling bullshit. It takes two to tango. At some point there is a line, even if you go past that line and get no results you should leave.

Bull fucking shit, some of the stuff women do is so screwed up, betray all your loyalty and screw you over and if you have enough respect for yourself to find someone you do deserve, they accuse of being a bad excuse for a man.

There is pain and then there is self destruct. Neither is a good thing. Real love shouldn’t mean going thru pain. Real partners work together thru it

I am getting tired of these selfish, self serving posts from women about men. You want a real man, be a “Lady”. That is what real men want and need.

Lols… eat shit! If ure a real man, if she cheats on you, leave her! Respect yourself my fellow men!

So if she cheats and you leave you’re not a real man?

Real men stand strong n firm and stay true to who they are. If you ain’t getting what u put into the relationship time to move on.

Bullshit, so because i give up due to being hurt, deceived screwed over i’m not a real man ? dead that, i’m a real man because i provided, loved and took care of my woman like the queen she was, and when it wasn’t appreciated i walked. i refuse to waist time on someone who wants to see how green the grass is on the other side while she ignored the gold grass in her own yard.

Wow, this is totally insane. There’s a limit to how much punishment anyone could and should take. Sure, some degree of downside is expected, but even a punching bag breaks apart at some point.