True

Um, I wouldn’t even be having sex until the relationship was far enough along for me to know that I loved my boyfriend.

That’s so right…:-)

Sometimes it ignites a spark seemingly immediately and fuels affection/connection/trust (which is what sex should entail) — at other times, it’s a culmination of the affection-that became-love/connection/trust. There is no magic formula for timing; it all matters on mutual comfort and respect — and is/or becomes what two people make of it.

Jeana Rose!! You deserve the best!!!

Women are guilty of this much more than men, they fall for jerks because of the sex.

So true. It better to take the time to get to know one another before you do acts like that. Because there is a lot of conceiques to all the choices we make through our life.

Love is not done for mean of sex and if you wanna sex then you never love anyone by your heart. . . . . . . After marriage sex is right and it increase love between two individuals but before marriage it is________.

Don’t worry about finding the perfect man; concentrate on being the right woman.

Very true!!……..It usually takes a Guy Many years…before He becomes “Mature” enough to understand this!!…

Don’t have sex in the beginning. It’s always confusing and causes separation issues if there’s a breakup.

Is call lust. Love comes when lust disappears

i hate it when a guy who wants sex so badly at the first stage of relationship and get so frustrated when a girl says no.

Very true. Lust does have similar traits and feelings, but still isn’t Love. The whole chapter of 1 Cor 13 is the best description of love I have ever found.

So true. Love is the feeling deep inside. When you can’t sleep or hardly eat & that person special one person .Is on mind 24/7 & you can’t wait to see them again just to feel their touch again.They make you laugh & smile, even on bad days. And you can’t see yourself with out them in your life. These are just some of many signs that you love them. And what you feel is real love.Love sometimes takes time.. But real love will last forever as long as you stay faithful to each other always..

if the person really wants to be with the other person they will wait. . and this goes for male or female. . and if they don’t want to wait then they are not worth the time. .

that’s why i’m waiting until I get the ring on it. ^_^

Wow…. some quotes just make you stop and think

“Sex ain’t better than love…”
Trey Songz

Sex is fun for a minute then after a while you can’t stand to talk, listen or be in the same room with that person. I agree take at least 6 months of not longer to get to know the person before you sleep with them. Because no matter if you think so or not it always leaves a mark and someone ALWAYS ends up hurt.

Become friends then soulmates then lovers its the best thing and will last forever…

How bout marriage first! What ever happened to that?

So true
. Been down that road.

I intend to only make love, not have sex. and in that idealogy, I only intend to have sex with someone I’ve been in a relationship long enough that we are committed, in love, and know each other deeply.. and yet when I tell people I’m a virgin they freak out and say I’m incapable of getting laid and make fun of me.. Really.. I feel sorry for their inability to understand the concept of waiting for someone worth losing said virginity to..