Wish I would’ve learned that a long time ago

I’m guessing u just keep some of those walls up?

I don’t

This is sooo tru.love urself first…everthing else falls into place..nobody wants a needy person..finding a balence is the key.

Too late!

I have to agree!!!

Tam been there done that, have no idea who I am.

I need to learn this

too late, i gave more and lost more

Compromise…yes
Conform……….no

Made that mistake. It will be a long road to gather the pieces that are left. .

You need to love YOURSELF before loving anyone else….When you do that they’ll naturally love you….Emotional dependency is very unattractive.

Must learn to do so.

The 1397 rule of relationships?? No wonder I am single. LOL

try telling that to a fat man and cake

It’s very easy to fall into this situation. One needs to feel good and confident about themselves. If you like yourself enough you can actually enjoy being alone. Don’t be woman who needs a man but be a woman a man needs. I too learned this the hard way…..

i am actually goin thru dis…i feel as if m empty handed…after 3.5 years of marital relationship, i didnt even get the love n care of this man whom im living with…the only thing i have is my son….whatever im going thru he never shares my bad times rather gets angry on me when m ill….what m i? where do i stand…..whats this marriage all about? …..i feel stucked up. i have no job.. m pregnant n feeling very low. he doesnt even care for what i eat in this condition…all i have to face is his bad attitude

It’s a give+take situation. Both have to give 100 % naturally ALL the time or won’t work. Count all the blessings, especially if they seem to tiny to acknowledge. Good luck!

Just be Happy that you have a good family waiting for you when you get HOME !!! 🙂

Sorry, but I disagree with this. If you love somebody and are truly in love, than you should give it your all. To love and be loved requires everything that resides in your heart and soul. Half-assimg it will only lead it to ruin. Those that half-ass it are the ones that are always spiteful and hurtful towards the other when it ends. Those that are broken hearted are the ones that truly loved, and gave it their all.

First love God…then yourself…..everything else falls in place if it is meant to be. That is what my Mama told me and it is true. If you never give your all, and they never truly see you then you are not being true. Holding a mirror to your face is hard, but that is what you need to move on, move forward, and come through….SAVED.