Also showss they werent as serious as they acted in your relationship with the person….

Sad part of this they usually have someone on the hook already :/

Best rule they have come up with.

That’s best rule we must do it

Exactly, I see so many that do this!

I suppose. I think it’s better to not be with anyone right after a relationship ends to help yourself heal.

Lol I can’t so I admit. Being alone ain’t fun talking to yourself and the walls at home. Watching movie cooking for yourself who wanna do that.

There is plenty of truth in that saying…..but some can not be alone for more than an hour…..

A whore is someone who sleeps around. I have been single for about a year twice, but only becayse I was so wrapped up in what I lost that I shut out the world. Usually I’m only single for a few months at a time. I wear my heart on my sleeve and a man can be so convincingly sweet until he breaks you down and convinces you he he deserves a chance, then once you’re caught hook line and sinker his true colors start to show. And I don’t have a “type”, most men are just lying cheaters. I… Read more »

how long is long enough after a breakup to start dating again without the possibility of someone being a rebound or showing that we cannot deal with being alone? 3 months? 6? a year? i need details lol

Time is patience and those who have that gift use it to the benefit KNOWING God blesses us at the right time. When everything falls apart theres something soo great being made for your future! #wordfromthewise

you shouldn’t jump from one relationship to another, give yourself some breathing room, focus on your personal development for a while, and if you have kiddos, them too, before getting into another one.

It also shows that person had someone lined up just in case they broke up wit the person they were wit

People do that because they want to avoid pain..pain is part of the healing process..just ride the emotions of pain and take the time you need to heal..

I can be alone after my relationship is finish, just like I stay now. If you go to another person straight way, everything that you have live with your ex, is gone be in your new relationship, I thing that everyone need space and time for the heart heal.

So not true at all im not at all afraid of being alone…..i just like being loved

This isn’t true of every situation or every relationship. Every situation has different circumstances. My hubby was separated from his wife for 11 months (didn’t see her but twice in that time and they were living in different states) and both times it was just her giving him paperwork. I was living with my husband still but our relationship had fallen apart and dissolved over 6 months prior to when I met my current husband. We became friends, talked all the time and he told me that if I ever needed a place to stay I could call him. My… Read more »

True. Being alone is often how you figure out what you truly want

So true! If you jump right in you are most likely trying to use that person to help get you over your ex. My ex-girlfriend is doing that right now, but it will come back and burn her because she can’t replace a guy like me.

You need to learn from your past relationship and learn to love yourself before you can truly love another person…otherwise you may as well hit a series of one night stands…my last relationship ended over a year ago, I took this time to heal and become a stronger woman than ever and good things come to those who wait the worlds greatest man swept me off my feet. This is the strongest connection I have ever had and I believe it’s because I allowed myself to heal and find within myself what I truly want in a relationship.

It’s not time that matters. What matters is completely being over the ex before the next relationship. Nobody likes to be the reboubd, ans certainly don’t like ex drama baggage..

If u jump into another relationship, its usually with the same kinda person u left. They might even be worse. 🙁 Love yourself first then the rest will come

Do not jump into a relationship because You will take all of your ex’s fault out on your new partner… True story….