You can most certainly think the person is attractive! Personality,values and interests are far more important. If you fall in love with all of those about the person AND you think that the person is attractive, then you are lucky. 🙂 “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Even if you don’t have the most attractive partner, you can see them as handsome or beautiful because of their heart. <3

oh come on….i have to be able to look at him….if i`m not attracted to him….i`m not gonna wanna be near him….and i sure as hell don`t want him to touch me….not along talk to me….even look at me…. just leave me alone…and go the other way…please….thank you….didn`t wanna bank you…..haha…lol

Haha true that ^^^

I agree Jeremy!

omg what BULLSHIT. if there’s no attraction there’s no relationship. end of story!

I agree w Jeremy. How can you be intimate w someone you’re not attracted physically too?

The secret is to find someone that YOU find attractive, even if they may not be attractive to everyone else or by society’s standards.

Do you still live in denison?

You CANNOT date someone you’re not attracted to.. Bottom line

It sure is a bonus tho<3 total package

No, they won’t look like that forever…but is Brad Pitt ugly…he’s like 49. LOL. So next.

Yes, find someone who you think is appalling. Or, here’s a thought, we could realize that looks aren’t the only “attractive” thing…

Love is actually based on three things. Passion, intimacy, and commitment

Looks obviously matter, just dont make it a priority.

I also understand that relationships are made of communication, but the point of this “rule” doesn’t include that.

Are they going to look that way forever?

hahahaha this is the same as the “fall in love blind” one you posted yesterday. I get it, I understand the message you’re trying to get across and it’s a noble one. BUT in reality if you aren’t attracted to the person you fall in love with you will cheat. Sorry to break it to you, but relationships are basically two things, Love and Sex. It’s been since the dawn of the human race. If you don’t find the person you are with attractive, then the relationship is pretty much a lie and will fail. Like I said, the thought… Read more »

Reece O’Coghlan – not every girl wants money – I just want unconditional love 🙂

Danielle u nailed it on the head. that was real

Attraction is what sets the stage for relationships. Simple social psychology

So true! looks fade away, but personality will last forever! (:

Not true… Attraction has to be there

so so true…

it is hard to believe, but i did fall in love with someone who i normally wouldn’t have dated..

Bs big time