It is in there nature to hurt others and get happiness but one day they will get it back in a very bad way by God that there will be no one to take them

This is so true So I had a Guy that Started taking me to concerts and would buy me anything I wanted mine u I was 15 a later down the line he ask would I be his girl was a little on the doubt side but told myself OK he’s done this and that for me I will give it a try so as life goes one he seemed like a sweet guy was not really my type but I guess the sweetness is Wat did it they being young at age 17 him 20 we get married still… Read more »

Yes. Others tend to hurt you and when you do the same things to them they hate you but they don’t care what you felt when they do that thing to you. Some are just pathetic persons.

Yep the audacity that u had the nerve to be hurt by someone u loved or trusted …duh its ur fault for making them hurt u right….

And sometimes they will be right because what hurt you was more the way you took what they said, and they are hurt because you have taken their words the wrong way.

Yes they do. It is really sad and you really have to feel sad for them. Cause the will never really know the true meaning of inter happiness. Their happiness is as fake and phony as they are.

Well hunny.. if u want to walk out of life , I’ll even hold the fucken door for you … ?? .

Sounds about right!! They act like their taking the high road when in reality you are! Telling family and friends what an awful person you are when in reality they have problems and are immature!

And to that, they well go to great lenghts to insure pain and suffering. Or just to ruin you with family(both sides) and friends(their side and or both)

So true,my ex was the messed up cheat who blamed it on me,always acted the victim and thought he would ruin my life by showing people that i hurt him while it was the other way round and that’s why i ended it.crazy

Those type of people are the weakest & most are dangerous…..fuck’em!

This is so true and expearienced this from all of 3 exes but I just asked them looked at the mirrow themselves and see the guilty from there ? I definetily not listened to their blames ? My ex still blame me and my relatives what has happened in his life and how I destroyed it ? Well.. I once asked was it my fault too when his parents divorced in his teenage when we didn’t even know each other ? I didn’t got answer for this ? I have gotten couple of times a day laughs when my daughter… Read more »

Hahaha that’s true..whatever!..like what the Scripture say’s “Love ur enemy”,Forgive to those who hurt and pursecute you and you’ll be forgiven”..

My ex psychotic always did this to me, got tired of his bullshit and decided enough was enough and left him for good. Came crawling back asking me to marry him. I said no he asked why. I told him why especially because it was abusive (verbally physically and mentally) Lucky I met my fiance and we are happy and building out little family.
Hope everyone finds someone that can love you for who you are and make you happy. ?
Have a great day eveyone

Such people f***ing mess ur life! They just cant stand seeing u happy. They just want u to feel vulnerable.
F*** them off from ur life. They no more deserve to be a part of it.

Same story here, I almost gave up fighting, almost accepted it was all my fault when we argued, whatever it was. It was always me.
One precious day it was enough and i watched him crawling, standing on his knees and begging to forgive and take him back.
In the next moment i felt completely free.

….and sometimes both people hurt each other, but make assumptions that the other is just lying. I have had a problem with a women I still love that has hated me for 13 years and to this day I only remember the pain she caused me…no idea what I did wrong.

This is talking about someone I know some where in this world, but my happiness is that my mind is free becos I never hurt him in any way at all. So d guilt is for him not me.

My ex and I dated for four years and I knew many times I should have just left… but I guess I was lonely and afraid to go. After 4 years of crap, she sent me a text one day telling me things like I was this and that and I took advantage of her parents generosity (went out to dinner week prior and the dad said no I got this when I pulled out my wallet). She told me I could stay but only in a roommate capacity. I went over, got my stuff, and left. Weeks later a… Read more »

Been there and it wasn’t a man! A girl who I thought was a very good friend was really deceitful and hurtful. When I reacted to this it was suddenly my fault and remains the same to this day some 10 years later! Obviously cannot face her own misdemeanors and guilt

To those of you posting elaborate stories about how someone hurt you in reference to this post makes it sound pretty contradictory I’m sure we’ve all experienced this unfortunate feeling please hit like, share or just shut up no one cares about your damn sob story

That’s how it goes, very few people go out of their way to hurt anyone, if they do, their demons are likely far greater than yours. Hardly compensation or heartwarming but that’s how it is. We hurt each other, often through a variety of methods, mostly circumstantial and very often because we can’t understand or talk to each other in a way we both understand

They act like they are hurting and try to make us feel and look like crazy insane people. Narcissists!

I loved a man who did this to me; I don’t understand in his mind how he can live this way. When we broke up (more like him leaving me) he started to see me on fb moving on and he then defriended because he couldn’t see my images or posts….why break up with me then?!!!? I had to call him to ask him why is he playing the victim and heartbreak guy when he’s the one that left me and did the damage. He always wanted me to wait for him; not live my life and change it when… Read more »

Yep. I was betrayed repeatedly, but when I wouldn’t stop divorce proceedings after he begged for reconciliation, *I* was the one ruining the union.