Being in love is too much energy if you are alone in it. Or if it is not possible. It is taking too much space in your head. It is not real and it is very bad to go it th. Being in love for real with two people together should be nice. But if you are alone in it then you feel a prisoner. A day being possible not thinking of the one you are in love is a day being free if you are alone in it. and being free means. you just can think and do so… Read more »

Sometimes you feel like Rudolph when they didn’t let him play any reindeer games… Lol

Sure it feels great until the other half walks away!

It is horrible!! Makes me never want to love again. I can’t go through this hurt ever again, it’ll kill me next time.

Love is awesome and everyone that’s ever been in love knows that. I know if I could change the past id be right back to the time when I was most in love. Don’t ask when or with who. That doesn’t matter. I feel everyone would too

Yeah it is …but after sometimes i realizes…he don’t deserve to stay there…!!! 😀 so i again close my heart to someone…. 😀 :p

Love doesn’t do any of the above. Love is caring love is kind. Love means to put someone’s needs before your wants. Love doesn’t hurt. God is love!

I learned how to build a wall and keep my guard up that way I can not be hurt again. When you love with all you have. Some people take it for granted. Not happening to me again. No way jose

Yell it was wonderful it was almost perfect then with one blink it was gone, what messed me up was how easily it was for him to walk away,mind blown

It’s not horrible! Yes it can mess you up! You can’t be afraid to love again! It takes work but damn it’s worth it if ya find that one….

There is no better feeling. If you fear it, you missed the point. Love starts from within and can only really be shared when your cup overflows. From that perspective you never have anything to fear.

Sure sure sure……. problem is. It was way more, beyond just love.
What happened might you ask. Well i wasn’t messed up. I was obliterated so badly into nothingness. That satin came to comfort me while god looks for my soul.
Heart was on the endangered species list as of nov, now its extinct.

What messes you up is when that someone was the greatest soulmate you’ve known and her heart knew she had all the love and more she’d ever sought, but her mind, fed by fears spun up from insecurities, couldn’t see a way forward and caused her to flee, instead of fighting for that true love. And you have to battle against the cruelty of watching that amazing soul and person you could have spent the rest of your life with, leave your life, and try each day to move forward and seal the giant hole that Fate ripped in your… Read more »

Big time! God told me to merry the man I have, to give all I have and find I’m not good enough, and to have it rubbed in by those that want my place, yet I stay and fight!

So many times women tend to put up a wall due to a previously marred relationship. Nothing bad can be said about a woman who has been scorned and tends to put a wall up. Vice versa for that fact, nothing bad can be said about a man who puts a “wall barrier” up for he too may have been scorned. “MEN, DO NOT PLAY THE HARDBALL GUY”. It’s some who have been hurt or relationship wronged as well. “Wall barriers ” tend to make you feel protected from heartache, lies, betrayal, misery and sometimes even depression. There are several… Read more »

Being in love isn’t horrible. It produced my 2 children. What hurts is the other person who doesn’t stay in love. Terrifying to try again but so so worth finding love from someone who does stay in love with you !!!

Never say your sorry for being yourself, yes we can change to the better, but your foundation is who you are. I always say, I am what I am what you see is what you get, I will compromise but never change who I am just to be who you want be to be, this is Me. Take it or leave it. Some one said on here love hurts, and they were right when someone else said No, people hurt people not love.

Very true it happened to me I’m just now putting back the pieces of my heart someone shattered and walked away like we never had a relationship at all every dog has their day always remember my friend the world will change again and you may have to come back through everywhere you’ve been

I’m a great believer in that we are supposed to love a few different people in our life time to, grow and fulfill our life. Love doesn’t hurt, but losing it sure does. My heart’s been broken quite a lot but it will never stop me giving it again, once it is mended xx

REAL love will NEVER make you feel like a mess…LOVE is patient, kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud, it does not dishonor others, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angred, it keeps no record of wrong, love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth, it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres! THIS IS WHAT REAL LOVE MEANS! ?

Have you ever been in love? It’s a BEAUTIFUL thing isn’t it? How two people who were once strangers to another can become entranced by the other’s captivating soul? That we have the opportunity to hold that which another keeps buries in the cold? It’s beautiful how we can allow our insecurities flow to our fingertips and off our lips into the ears our lover. If we allow a seed of vulnerability to see the sunshine it can grow into a wondrous thing called Love with another. For now your lover is curiously engaged in your wondrous beauty that you… Read more »

Nope, love is awesome. Sure I get knocked down sometimes but once the dust settles I brush myself off and start looking for the next cliff to dive off. Love is my favorite thing in life. You know what is horrible? Feeling cometely numb and putting up walls. That would be a terrible existence.

It messes you up to find that one soul in this time, that you swear you’ve known in another life. To have that person share that same feeling, to talk for hours and hours, and lose any concept of passing time because you’re just so into getting to know everything you can about each other, hanging on every word. Looking forward to talking and spending time with each other right after you part, knowing that next time can’t come soon enough. Planning for a future when you can say goodnight and stay in each other’s arms. Only to have it… Read more »