No way you open up to people and later it gets chucked back in your face rather suffer in silence now because no point asking someone who doesn’t understand for help.

I always share my problems to my pretty wife
Its really good .its shows how sincere you are with your partner .If partners are sincere then they will share if not they will not disclose their sectrets and in result when both knows realities it will be more difficult to get trust again .
I love my wife

Key word is TOGETHER ! I told my xh most of my problems and he’d tell me that they are all MY problems to fix not our’s. Problems made us more distant, not closer. I said most bc once you reach a certain point of frustration w your partner, you just stop sharing sadly bc you KNOW you’ll have to tackle whatever comes your way alone even though you have a ‘partner’

Not even true, now days if you do that they eventually figure that you are a mess and leave rather than trying to fix it. Relationships today are like when, for instance, a hairdryer breaks you throw it out and get a new one instead of fixing it. It’s really sad and painfull.

I think not only problems we should share evrything good n bad ..everything we used to do in our dailylife…I used to do share evrythng wid my partner my daily life routine..? If we do this typ of sharing things, reltionship wid your will b healthy

Amen…..always good to be open and honest about everything when you share a life with someone. Dishonesty and secrets can kill a relationship/marriage.

That’s what I want. share and be open to each other but he hates it everytime I say something he feel like it’s just another problem and it’s too much drama well reality, it’s not. but in his crazy head it is. So I really don’t know how to make this guy understand that at some point in life u have to face challenges and tragedies yet you can pass it through together just help one another. But I’m always the “too much effort” one .

True…To be honest I RATHER HER SHARE HER PROBLEMS WITH ME …I don’t want to bombard or burden her with my worries…I want to be her comfort ….I’m the shoulder to lean on at all times…

You open up when they provide you reasons to trust them. If you notice they are reliable and will protect your feelings, they are worthy of sharing your life with.

Lol this is a load of cat poop. The more you “open up” the more distance you put between the two of you. The more distance, the less you both care about putting forth effort.

Never share what you are going through because your partner doesnt care, its none of their business and they probably glad your going through a hard time.

You think they would listen and understand you but I’ve noticed it’s only a one way thing. They always want it to be about them self