Or call you a handyman in a effort to not pay carpenters wages.
Or ask you demeaning questions to put you in the one down answering to them.

It’s just a reflection of how they feel about themselves

That is a form of gas lighting. Red flag in a relationship if they always turn it around on you. Walk away

They can pretend all they like – the reality is God is watching and karma will bite them in the arse one day for doing that

Right ,but sometimes it really doesn’t matter what people think or say or pretend to be cuz I am who I am and don’t care if they like me or not I’m still being loved by someone I truly love that’s why we been together for eleven years and pray to God many more to come God bless!

That’s why people call Trump supporters Nazis. So they can attack them without feeling guilty. 😉 I know, I just subverted this whole thing. XD

Just because someone says something untrue doesn’t make it true. You just need to be able to realize who you are and if anything it shows where they are hurting.

I can’t understand why thy do like that.if thy know v well thy r doing or saying wrong . ….It’s really v hurting when you hv bn trying to do ur best nd u never appreciated & encouraged by them…..At the end ..U just stop doing so nd thy lose u for ever ??

Our Lord God and his son Jesus know my head and my heart, they are unified. That’s what matters. I pray one day those who wish I’ll will on others find peace in the spirit of Jesus.

A true Christian who judged in error, would attempt to right the wrong. Someone who intentionally accused, gave false witness, egged others to adversly impact someone’s life, livelihood, reputation etc, could not be a Christian. Their path to redemption is to apply the same effort and energy to right the wrongs.

That is the way the cookie crumbles but eventually they can’t help themselves and eventually come looking for you but sometimes it is too late

so true but I think they don’t have peace, cause deep down they know the truth but they prefer lying to make u a bad person.

They aren’t pretending, because of their guilt, they have formed a new twisted “reality” of what you are like. Opinions and circumstances are skewed as they see you through their own filter of lies.

If God doesn’t permit.no one has power to do anything to anyone .Even if they intend bad Almighty will turn it the best for you so pray that GOD bless them.

Its very common that one or even both in a situation will make the other the bad guy, play the victim or even deny their part. But to straight out push the other to react so as to shift the blame is as guilty as the other!

So very true! It’s a sad day when people can’t just own their issues and be real!

Dam didn’t c that before now cause i got blamed daily even at work n thats y i found that she was engaged for a year behind my back … N we have 2 boys n i dont c them cause of her smfh but its wat it is

Yea that’s what my ex did , and the last time he did it i knew he was cheating again , after 19 years of marriage i walked away , ill never be like him and he knows it

Nasty selfish people! And their friends also believe they r the good guy bcoz they pretend very very well! They dun feel guilty the thing they did to u bcoz they r cold blood people only want to protect themselves and do things for their own happiness only!

My husband of 17 years walked out on me and our kids and went around saying I was the bad guy, made up numerous lies and then 4 years later wanted me back! Lmfao!!! Meanwhile I got into a relationship with another man who claimed to be nothing like my ex. Turns out he was worse! Fuck it! I’m focusing on myself, my kids and my grandson. Maybe someday Mr. Right will find me, but I’m not looking.

Yep an everything they accuse you of-is exactly what they are doing..smh…some people are so messed up in the head. Insecure,attention seeking, narcissistic, paranoid crazies.

This is wrong on a lot of levels because chances are, you both didn’t treat each other right. We tend to see the faults in someone else rather than seeing our own faults and that’s just human nature. We don’t want to think we’re the problem so we blame the other person. The best way to avoid that is to accept your faults and find ways to fix what you did wrong.

Sad but sometimes in life that definitely happens. That’s when it’s time to walk away. People like that are destructive .