This is a player. Not someone who really wants something real or someone who cares about their effect on another.

And you don’t see it coming and it can be a big hit to your confidence. It makes it difficult to want to put yourself out there. Just want honesty, every step of the way.

Because no one wants to be honest anymore or take time to know who they are or what they really want in life which makes them wishy washy. Having a true sense of self and a backbone is becoming rare these days and that is sad.

There is 2 types of love. True love and artificial love. When you truely love someone, you will still love that person what ever this person did it to you. You’ll feel happy together with him / her even he / her have nothing. Artificial love is where you are just looking for love, someone that can “play” along with you when you seduce that person matches your “basic boy / girl friend requirement” without any feeling of love towards that person at all. This feeling faded and diluted as time goes by, as when you know that person better.… Read more »

If that person has walked away, consider yourself lucky they are now out of your life. They are time wasters and they would have done it sooner or later anyway. Better sooner than later!

Ctfu exactly what happened to me ? one minute it’s our 2nd anniversary then next thing u know after an argument he’s breaking up with me cuz “he’s not sure” & not in love with me anymore ?? at first it was devastating….but after a year and 10 months of finally moving on everything is honestly just so funny lol

Especially someone’s close to me. They change their minds, then blame you, and make you feel like you’re an evil. People like that lose my trust because I don’t even know if they are honest about what they say or not

It’s too easy to get divorced. If you cheat, your spouse should get the house, large financial stake, etc. That would prevent a lot of people from cheating or running as soon as they hit a rough patch.

Yeah this post is kinda true… I think a lot of people are just broken and we all keep cutting ourselves when we try to hold onto the twisted pieces of what used to be a warm and loving heart. I can’t really blame them but they scare me they look normal outside…

Definitely the worst feeling ever. Feels like you’ve been gutted like a fish without any understanding or closure. Just moving on and never looking back. ?

Its true…its because they are afraid of commitment…they tend to love you in their own convenience alone..they are selfish and they want you to love them for being themselves yet if you want their love back they tend to withdraw…they wanted to have you but having them in return feels sucks…how will you stand for them until the end when its just you who want them.. ???

Hurts like hell! But if they don’t want to love me for who I am and work through the rough stuff of figuring out a relationship I guess it’s their loss. Because I know I’m a damn good person.

Exactly. We were supposed to settle down this year. We opened a joint account with his biggest earning on Jan 26. We celebrated his mom’s bday with his family around the end of January. We still talk sweet stuff until Feb 4th. Then he broke up with me and said his final goodbyes on the 8th. He said I can keep his money. He said he loves me but he can’t love me intensely. He said the happiness he felt wasn’t full. A sad break-up a few days before Valentine’s day. He threw me away just like that.

And its the worse feeling ever. Questions and unable to truly understand any of it. Leaves you blank. But if you give your all and are 100% then you can feel confident and clear of consciousness and walk away with peace of mind. But heartache will still be there.

True. It’s scary. Makes you question every move someone makes after that, makes you doubt their every move, as if your trying to anticipate the same answer as this statement before it happens and your trying not to be blindsided again. Leaves you on edge for the rest of your relationships. No matter how much you try to quell those thoughts, they always pop back up!

A relationship is not about your fleeting emotion. It is about your continuous choice to stay and commit to it. It will get boring and you may think you’re not happy anymore but it is your responsibility to focus on the commitment and to look for ways in making your partner happy and keep things interesting. Do not dwell on temporary feelings. A relationship is a continuous commitment to hold on to each other, happy or sad.

The right one won’t do that, I’ve been through all this too but then I met the woman I’m married to and I know without a doubt she’ll never leave me, and I will never leave her.

I guess people change because of some rejection they received, doubt fall into their minds.if you are rejected twice next time nothing follows. You lost your confident with yourself at the same time trust and belief . It’s a worse feeling ever , and we have to control it . We all need to be real and honest if we are not available, people who had the gift to understand things is not a big deal. I appreciate people who have great minds, they’re really favored by God .but human is what we are, we’re not perfect,but people with gift… Read more »

It’s crazy how someone can make you feel so important in your life and I mean really make you feel important but then things don’t get their way they make you feel that you’re not worth the effort to try to fix what’s happening. He found his “perfect” girl, or at least what everybody tells him, now my question is, does he believe it? I don’t wanna be the one that got away, but I’m getting close to be. So sad right now.

I don’t have time for any “I’m not sure anymore”.. It’s either a resounding YES, or it’s NO. I’m not a maybe, I’m not a runner up, I AM someone’s resounding life long YES. I deserve that.

Human is what we are. We all need to be real and honest about what we think and how we feel, and we all need to be ourselves in this life and have the heart to give love. As people, we are so used to what we have known all of our lives, and it all gets tattooed into the soul, becoming our own world. In life, know that all things change, for that’s the only thing that stays the same. At times our thoughts are positive and other times our thoughts are negative, it’s only natural, like the passing… Read more »

Wow I just went through that! It’s been 4 months since, and I still feel the disappointment of that rollercoaster ride! All I can say is never be someone’s second choice! You deserve better!!!!

This is real face of hypocrite world & one time they make you sure they want you from heart but other hand they leave you at the end for no reasons and hard to find loyal person..

Yes. It’s disheartening but let me be the one to shed a different light on this. Sometimes it’s as simple as that person being lost as to who they are and what they want. You have to know and love yourself first and know where you are going before you can love anyone else.

Sounds like my ex of four years.
Yes I love you then I hate you then he’s unhappy then he’s sorry then kicks me out then happy in love again four years of this circle finally I said enough I left and never looked back