When I got divorced because he was cheating I asked my pastor what forgiving means. He said forgiving has nothing to do with staying with a cheater., drunk. Let’s not confuse forgiveness for stupidity. Lol

This is true cause I have always thought that everyone has this good inside them even they hurt me but with right one this might become out except from the narsissist cause these I just can’t count on these who has this goodness inside them ☺

Last year this wud have been me! I’ve changed I’m no longer a doormat for ppl to walk on or over never again will I be that person!

Call me foolish girl I don’t mind..and I don’t even bother of what other say about him..all I know is I love him and I want him in my life..I’ll take good care of him…
Even it hurts??

Damn….. Why is that? I thought to forgive and forget and put more effort applied to all. Wow….. adds to the list of crazy shit I have been thru in my life.

I’m with U… No matter what happens, I am down with my people: Friends, Family, and even Perfect Strangers!!!
I’M DOWN– MORE THAN LEROY BROWN!!!

That’s me right know dealing with all this and depression hope soon things get better just remember you ain’t stupid is the person who couldn’t see what they had or even care to think about the other person feelings

“You shall forgive 70 times 7…” …Matthew 18:22 … The way of the world creeps into the church… Why does this meme say “UNFORTUNATELY”..
Oh contraire! It is VERY FORTUNATE! I am thankful that God has made me into what I am, today – forgiving!!!

That’s a fact.. I trust to much, I love to much.. I some how always forgive way to easily.. some say it’s a blessing, I say it can be a curse..

Once a cheater always a cheater.
Once a liar always a liar.
Once a thief always a thief.
Did you know that if you shave A tiger the stripes are on their skin. They can’t change their stripes.

I believe it’s called “forgiving” and having “hope”…but you gotta know when to distance yourself from that though. You can have a good heart, but do not be taken advantage of…

We all are going to hurt people, as well as get our own hearts broken, such is life… Its when the same person intentionally knows what the pain they cause over and over and the heartache it causes and does it anyway… That is when karma sets in…

There is nothing “unfortunate” about this. “There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us, that it ill behooves any of us to find fault with the rest of us.” (James Truslow Adams)

Once a person shows u the real side of them, u better believe it. There’s no good in a person that always mistreats u. Simply low self esteem issues

Depends how you look at it. Keep believing and just don’t be surprised. If you matter to them, they will change, if you don’t, you’ve lost nothing and can still be the happy faithful lovely who you are meant to be

That’s where agape is different from other types of love. But it never includes letting yourself be hurt. Remember the verse that says love your neighbor As Yourself. You would never approve someone else being hurt, same for you!

Night gathers, and now my watch begins. I shall take no wife, hold no lands, father no children. I shall live and die at my post. I am the Sword in the darkness. I am the watcher on the walls. I am the Fire that burns against the cold, the Light that brings the dawn, the Horn that wakes the sleepers, the Shield that guards the realms of men. I pledge my life and honor to the Knights watch for this night, and all nights to come.

Sad Once a person shows you the real side of them, you better believe it. It will not change. There’s no good in a person that always mistreats you. It shows everyone low self esteem issues that you have. I wish more people would realize you will never change anyone but yourself and till you do change yourself your wasting your time!!

Not anymore, being with a narcissist got me over being “too nice”. I still believe in second chances but I no longer believe everyone deserves them.

Unfortunately i have been burned by this way to many times, i have reached a point in my life where im starting to question love, and loyalty and i honostly believe it’s better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone

My other always turned it around. Whatevrr he would do that was hurtful he had the answer for it. As if it didnt matter or no big deal. Had issue with admitting when he was being hurtful . He has lied to me but always turned it around. I finally got tired of hurting yet he still was in denial. Never apologized.

Multiple times???
How?! How you still believe?!! There is a good side??
For her/himself only, i think!!

Depends on the way they hurting you..
Hurt me once, hurt me twice..
I’m nobody’s fool, come on!!!

Me too, and i begin to think that this might be some kind of self-torture. In some situation its not a good thing, its a sickness.

Ya…on the other hand if you keep your boundaries, but still believe in them…you might just help them save themselves. These three remain…faith, hope…and love.

I have foolishly, and unintentionally, hurt other people – and I believe I am a good person – albeit, imperfect in so many ways. So I like to believe that other people are like me – a person with a good heart, with the capacity to love, and with the unfortunate imperfections that cause us all to make mistakes. ❤️ (Life is hard and confusing for ALL of us… ya know?)