It never did with me, I always thought of the lovable moments first before anger and possible judgment. I guess I value things more.

That’s why it’s so important to call each other if you think it may be an issue instead of texting. Texting is bad when you want to have a conversation about something in a paragraph. If you think you’ll write a paragraph or story, best bet would be is to call each other. It’s not worth a misunderstanding over something that could of been handled in a mature way. PICK UP THE TELEPHONE!!! Trust me, been there done that. In my case, since my guy is always on the road truckin’, I need to respect that with no texting, unless… Read more »

That’s why communication is key. A misunderstanding left unaddressed turns in to resentment, and that’s not healthy for either of you.

If a “misunderstanding” is thought of as “poisonous” and makes you forget all the good things… maybe u should have a reality check that no one is going to agree on everything. Maybe you should take a look inside yourself to learn why something as small as a misunderstanding is so bad that you’re willing to forget all the good.

I’m so glad I know what love is. It’s so much simple then what people make it out to be. Love isn’t superficial, or something you can buy, nor is based on race. Love is when two souls unite and become one. Real love cant be bought nor spent, it’s showing gratitude, respect, anf support towards each other and accepting one as is. Love improves you and make you a better person, not change you and make you loose all self. Love is a beautiful thing when shared with the right person. “To know God is to know unconditional love… Read more »

I would not call it a misunderstanding if it is poisonous, it is more than that. But the point is well taken. Sometimes a single cruel remark or one instance of indifference is all it takes to undo a relationship that seemed good up to that point.

Watch out, let not a minute of confusion make you loose it out all…. Always have memories of the good moments of your past and think twice before you speak or act….

Yeah, right! Sad…because, love is definitely better than pride. So, if you really love each other…you really have to make-up & make things work for both of you. =)

Whats worse is when theres a misunderstanding that you don’t know happened and it just festers for weeks or even months until is surfaces

Very true. People that have been betrayed assume the worse…communication can only save relationships from misunderstandings…

So many Narcissistic Females will tell their spouse that you misunderstood her.
All to derail you from the truth.
Make you as a man doubt the very thinking that goes on in your mind.

I suppose how poisonous that moment is, if it is a moment that is not a single, it shouldn’t be something that the two of you can work through.

That’s why we forgive. That’s why we try to patch things up. That’s why nag eefort ka kasi me pinagsamahan na. Nandun pa rin yung care ..