“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then… Read more »

Well, it doesn’t always work out that way! They still Screw you over in the end! On a bright note, The sun is out! LOL

I agree to an extent! I believe I do this all the time but in doing so I’ve lost myself. I’ve completely forgotten about me!

Its not “more important”. It should be “just as important as your own”.

I would do anything to keep my Gary happy ?
Ps…
Gary is the most wonderful man in the world and he is one and only for me ❤
So it’s nonsense to ask me to add anyone to chat with me ☺

Agree
But you must not forget that there’s a point where you gotta Stop setting yourself on fire to keep that one special person warm… ?

No. Love is when you learn to love yourself before loving someone else and making sure that when loving someone you don’t stop loving yourself. If YOU are not happy you CAN NOT make any one happy.

I disagree! If two people willing to fall in love together than both their happiness are important. It not always about you or me, it about us.

I love him more than life itself! He is my whole world!!! And the love of my life!! I love you Sammy Brown my wonderful loving husband!!!??❤️

Yesss true..but it shd b mutual lov n respect frm both sides..its been like now a days nobody care’s fa others happiness every one r trying to save der own comforts.

Oh they can say that when they hurt you. But I heard them talk after they was hurt and its a different storie. Soo I am not going to believe a dam word of it. I will do as I dam please and they can go to h— ehere they should be

Don’t agree. You must love and respect yourself before you can love another. Otherwise you will be a doormat, who won’t be respected back. I know first hand , I put my ex- husband needs and wants before my own thinking he would love me back the same. He cheated, betrayed, and lied and finally left me for another woman. He didn’t respect the doormat I’d become. Looking back I can see why he left. I no longer put myself last. Life is good.

I agree. Set them free with love. And you will see that being reflected back at you in your own soul. Letting someone go out of hate eats you away not them.

God is love, an he gave his great love to us even as we hurt him by our sinful ways he still loves us more than him self an show us kindness through his love, d world of love is d most beautiful places where every nice sweet things come from, if god put our love first, so y can’t we human being show love an kind to others, showing love to others simply means u love ur self too.

I think nowdays, someone needs to show you they are worthy of your love, before you put them first. Some people will never truly care, even if your love is so strong to give your life for them.

This is tru. In many ways most wont understand. The ability to love and see the one you love truly happy is more powerful and more rewarding. But it gets questioned when it shouldn’t.

Happiness cannot be found in other people. It starts within first and foremost. Sacrificing your own happiness for the sake of someone else’s means you give too much while the other person takes, that’s a codependent/narcissist relationship, not love.

It does work at times and I must say, it has for me. At least the second time around. It doesn’t run smooth all the time or most of the time. I’ve been fortunate, I have someone who loves me and always has and will. We’ve been married 55 years this years. I must say it takes a lot of work(isn’t the word I want) It’s been smooth, rough, and disagreement but that is the way it goes.

I disagree with that. Love yourself first. I did that for many years, only to get cheated on. You end up losing sight of who you are, because you make it all about them.

This only works if both people feel the same way about each other if each person cares about the other’s happiness and well being then it will work.. It is both a give and take on both sides.

Not agree.
We have to love ourself first, then you love the other. That way, you will not allow mistreat, betrayes, humiliations.

I agree but now a days, nobody care’s about other’s happiness. Everyone is trying to save their own interest. They don’t let them live with peace and comfort…