I must not be anyone’s priority but, my mother’s. She’s the only one who texts or calls me first. Everyone else in my life I’m the first to contact them. Always.

I really need to keep reading this over and over again till it sinks in!! Ugh

You’re not alone and it does really suck always feeling let down and last on the list!

I often feel this way then they do something to surprise ya

That why i give up calling or texting ..If i not worth your time for me caring u also not worth mine..Only when conveinient i exist..

And when they don’t … you know they aren’t interested :/… like always

I’m going through this right now my husbsnd has a friend 1100 miles away he texts all the time she’s his first priority not me and idk how much longer I can do this

That’s true but she had a pretty busy job..so I underatand..where I got concerned and annoyed is she’s always on the phone with someone…..and it ain’t me..

yes but i dont text… if you put in all the effort they are not into u… and yea tim same goes with me.. but i did wake up finally and am trying to move forward. youll always love them but are better off without that. u deserve more.

Yes if they respect me or value our friendship even on fb only why can’t they press like on my posts…because only them matters…just saying…unfriend option?hmmm

Note to myself, Sometimes you love someone so much ,when you stop texting and there’s nothing, you have a hard time excepting this……no actions they are showing you how much they really care…#Love it takes a minute to check on the person, distance shouldn’t matter either, if the care they don’t make excuses to see you ,they make time for you, tears……..

So true…talking to a 20 something young lady today and I told her these very things…I think sometimes we all seem to forget it. It can’t be a one-sided relationship.

Yeah, even if it’s one sided…..comes a time you have to wake up and know is never going to be…no matter how much you love them….I haven’t learned that and my heart is broke….what’s wrong with me…?

Don’t think that you are always a priority… Priority always changes when they meet new people ….
they won’t even have time to text or call us , but will have the time to give their daily updates to that new person .
This show that you are not priority anymore

So True !!! Just move on and Find someone who loves you for you and not your money , If your worth it to them then you should never feel like an option but you should like you are each other’s other half , cuz in this generation its all about lying, cheating, deceiving , money, sex, power and broken promises and trust.

This is so true, invest in those that make the time to invest in you. Remember you deserve the best and God has a plan…don’t settle for part timers!…..Just saying?keep it moving

Yeah right that’s why I stop calling are text my fiance because if he don’t have time to care about me why should I care about him . Because he not worth my time at all. I can send better time with someone that we’ll care about me.

You’ll never have to wonder and guess if someone cares.

If you have to beg for someone’s attention who loves you, chances are….they don’t love you! Men and women get complacent while dating or get comfortable with each other after the first few months of dating.

It’s Called respecting yourself! Leave them be, it’s not about you but them! No need to make anyone priority when your just another option! Karma is amazing thing… no one escapes it. #sadbuttrue

Your priority should be yourself, and if you both can love yourself first, there wouldn’t be a Need for someone else to be your priority. Enjoy your time alone and appreciate the time you have with your partner.

My dating rules so far… 1. If he doesnt ask you out first, he isnt interested 2. If he refuses to call you or shows no interest in calling you (no, texting doesnt count here) after the third or fourth date just to talk, he’s not really interested. 3. If he wont bring up being exclusive 2-3 months after you have slept together or refuses to call you “girlfriend” after the exclusive talk, he’s not really interested. 4. If he gives you the bullshit line “lets be friends and we can decide later if we want to date again, he’s… Read more »

I would say find someone that fits your schedule because if 1 person has more spare time they would feel this way. Sometimes stuff happens like a death in a family, issues with work, school, finance, etc… which requires a person’s attention so even though they don’t prioritize you it doesn’t mean that they’re not thinking or loving you. I read somewhere that in order to be independent you have to be dependent first. Which means communicating with each other, having each other’s back & trusting each other… like when they’re busy or away. Not all situations require the 2… Read more »