If we are attached to somebody..we then expect things from them but if we love them, we don’t expect things from them… Attachment leads to sufferings but Love leads to be free…. I hope what I said makes sense

Yep. I Should’ve known better but the heart tends to override the brain at times :-/

Yes they can..patients is key..and absence makes the heart grow founder.. if its meant to be it will be!!?☮✌?……NOW if i could follow my own advice lol????✌☮

It’s easy to say when you’re able to control everything. You don’t always realize they don’t love you back until it’s too late

I’m going to add my own advice to this. “Don’t marry someone who’s libido is far above or below your own; Tension, expectation, stress, incompatibility and starvation will eventually ruin your marriage”.

Women pull and tug at your emotions. Keep your head “Evaluate Her Actions” as well as her words. “A Good Woman” is worth everything once you find her, and when you do, Never Let Her Go!

So true…I learned that the hard way with my ex wife…her exact words were…I never loved you and only had kids with you to make you happy

This is so true, i realized years ago that my ex was never afraid of losing me after breaking up with me for the umpteenth time with a dumb excuse, i guess he knew how true my heart was for him but i was always afraid cuz i knew at any given moment i would end up losing him

But if you both thought the same way no one would ever get attached to anyone and there would be no lasting, committed relationships. This statement cancels itself out.

This hurts so truthfully and personally. Unrequited love will force you to overthink so much that it will consume your time wondering why you were so attached to someone who treated you as someone unimportant.

That person will be able to wear a mask until she/he will manage to fill their purpose with you….after she/he did that, they will find another one 🙂

… this one would of sounded/ read better, if it said … can “almost”, mentally, destroy you … because you “bend … don’t break!” … 🙂

This is one of the truest statements I have ever heard. That is why it is so paramount that you find out if you both are on the same page, because if not then it can destroy your mind, body, and heart.

I’m so tired of letting my guard down just for that reason. This one hit me real hard where it was consuming me mentally…. I should just become a nun…. Lol

True but people lie a heck of a lot to get what they want . Be careful in a relationship with someone that has filed for divorce before . You will probably be next .

That’s what they think love is….having you open enough to kill you. And if you aren’t a groupie dude like the rest, they’ll try to take you out in other ways!!! ;0)

Even when they feel the same. Down the road the true colors come out!

True… and I’m old and experienced enough to know better… and yet I just did this to myself. And DAMN, it really effin’ hurts. I broke my own heart. Pretty stupid of me.

Yeah because you always know where you stand with someone. I actually just had this conversation the other day with someone that told me they “Loved me” Her: “I love you.” Me: “how would you define love?” Her: “I don’t know I have never been asked that before.” Me:”okay” Few minutes go by…… Her: “I’m happy you asked me that.. because everyone I have ever known has hurt me.. I guess I can describe love as pain, anger, frustration..etc” Me: “no one has ever told me that before including my parents. So I love you to me means nothing but… Read more »

Even sadder when they were the one to convince you that it was meant to be and to stick with them…convinced you they were in love with you and then turn around and discard you and act as if you were nothing..mock your pain and make you look like a fool for loving them and being heart broken over them. Best just not to have expectations at all really..whether one or two sided..or expect that other side may really be a lie so they can manipulate and decieve you

By the time I have learned this it’s too late already… ?
But it gave me a good lesson which is going to help me in future…

I know i m not perfect..thats y i m not look for perfect..i look for real..i am look for somebody who is just as confused abt life as i am..and hopefully we can figure it out together..i am looking for somebody who’s been hurt before..coz i have been hurt before..hopefully we can heal each other.. I am looking for somebody who still believes in love..old love ,we are in this together in love…so i can prove to themthat it still exists..so they can prove to me i am not fool for still beleiving … 🙂

It’s too bad most of the time people don’t want to tell you what their real intentions are until you’re already attached. I really dislike those kind of people who leads you on or string you along.