When you don’t share common ground ( hobbies, interests, morals, etc) it’s impossible to build anything that will LAST!! Everyone knows the first 3-6 months is the cloud 9 zone. But watch out for red flags! In the moment you dont put stock into these ” little” differences . But once the newness wears off…… all those little differences amount to a person you have very little in common with . When you realize you do, think, say and aspire nothing like your partner does….. there’s not much of a foundation!! Opposites attract….. only until the honeymoon phase is over!!… Read more »

Never ever get lost in the relationship. You are two separate individuals that decided to be together, but that doesn’t mean that you have to forget who you are. You still need your time alone, going out with your friends, do your hobbies, enjoy being alone. Being all mushy mushy and clingy is the worst thing that someone can do 🙂

Life with an emotionally unavailable, condescending narcissist is not a happy one and you can never do right by them no matter how hard you try.

To not become complacent. If you genuinely not happy about something, and you voice that but it never changes move on or you will become very unhappy and end up blaming them. Love yourself first.

That people change from the person you fell in love with to this whole new creature who came from no where.. you can learn a lot in time, be patient and true colors always shows

Don’t fix their financial problems bc u will feel resentful and disappointed- lending $ ruins everything!!! Don’t do it!!!!

Communication and respect are necessities. Trust your gut if you feel somethings not right, it’s usually not. Don’t ignore the red flags.

That people are capable of lying right in your face and have zero regards for how it makes you feel or the outcome from such lies. And when they get caught in their lies they turn it around and blame you somehow. ?

Every Ex is a lesson learned, good, bad, or otherwise. So learn from what you’ve been taught and don’t pretend to not see the signs in the future. And forgive but forgive for yourself, so you can move forward faster and healthier

Don’t trust first impressions and pay attention to the partner”s inactivity or lack of it and that should tell u to move on and stop wasting your time!

That we all don’t love the same. You either accept the way they love or leave… Unfortunately I had to leave

Be patient with some one who has been abused. Be more understanding of there fears and insecurities. But most importantly if you love that person don’t give up

Stay single, don’t look for love, don’t sleep with them. Get to know them. Make sure they’re honest and understand the word commitment.

Don’t get emotionally involved with anyone. You always end up getting hurt or fucked over in the end.

Always go with your gut. And get out sooner before u invest too much time and end up being the one hurt. Also don’t date douchebags!

People are so convincing, but always go with your gut feeling because it’s always right and the truth comes out in the end.

You put your soul, life and blood into the relationship and they leave you anyway, at their right time!

You get 1 shot at a relationship. You can’t do it over it again, regardless of how good it is, as one party always resents the other for leaving/calling it quits the first time. It also doesn’t matter how good the reasons are, if it doesnt work the first time walk away

I learned that “Love can change you” , “Love can make you do crazy things” , “Love makes impossible,possible.” and “Love can make your heart, broken..”

Never settle. Stop giving up so much of yourself to someone who won’t even return half of the favor. Stop trying to accomadate everyone. If he cannot meet me at my level then I don’t want to be bothered.

Your trust should always be given freely while being earned. But once that trust is lost, it can never be fully given back. People will not change in a day, a week, or a month…. don’t break your own heart trying to piece it back together with the person who shattered it in the first place. But also always forgive what people do to you. You can’t move forward, if you are stuck on the past.

Never EVER go back to it when you left because the person was toxic! Lesson learned for the second time. Yes I’m a dumbass

Communication is everything!! Talk about anything and everything that’s bothering you right then and there to avoid future shit from going down.

If they cheat once, they will keep on cheating. 100 means nothing anymore and I can only love myself! Fuk the world

Don’t ignore the red flags. Your feelings matter. Don’t put all of your trust into someone who proves they’re unworthy of it.