Brandon talking is hard sometimes, but I’d rather have an uncomfortable conversation with you and understand the situation then to assume and keep to myself and then over think and risk messing up what we have.

Constant conversation is the key of understnding wth an open minded mine..sensitivity of the each parties is must and an applicable way to reach the goal of understnading to each of u.

Talking doesn’t work sometimes… you just have realize that there are things you can’t work out and decide if you stay and live with it or leave!!!

Yes then you can poke holes in their stories. Because you’re so used to them lying to you, you wouldnt know the truth anyways.

I nvr ever thought u do again..
In ny life i nvr ever frds to them..again..
Bec i see infront my eyes..
Its make hurt so much ..until now..i cry..
Bt her she tell abt my mom..
I wont leave it..1 day or 1 day i will pay it.

But sometimes, I just get so tired on asking and understanding. just be kind and act as if everything’s okay, but deep inside I’m not and what I just want to do now is to focus with myself.. and let him do what he wants. ? I don’t wanna stop him with what he wants to do with his life.. let him learn and if he succeed that’s good for him, but when he fails, he has no one to blame to but himself.. ? I stopped saying “No” to him, when he changed alot.

Really ? As easy as like that, asking what’s happening? n when he gets violent n shutted you out n you can get what you’re asking ah ?

I hate being told I have nothing to be upset about….. if you did something that hurt my feelings or I’m calling you out … I obviously have a reason. I try to talk about my feelings but I get made to feel it’s my fault an or he gets mad. It’s never their fault… smh

I tried to,but he was always too busy,too tired,or on his phone.
Obviously never really wanted to work it out like he said…
And yes I’m still wanting him to love me like he used to and fix it!!!

Some point in time we get tired of talking things over and over again. Especially when things don’t seem to be changing it’s like why even waste your breath when the same ole bullshit keeps appearing.. All you ever hear is I’m sorry babe I will change pssh miss me with all that bullshit..

Well there are exceptions….. ….Some times u have to put aside wots bothering u and just accept the way things are…..

I dont like the things my partner does, but i dont stop her, she has to figure it out for herself in order to stop the things shes doing wrong, ive questioned her calmly but she gets all defensive and causes an arguement, i questioned her about why she was going around a guys house shes not known long at 2 in the morning and rolling in between 3:30 and 5am, i asked her how would she feel if it was the other way round, she said she’d be ok with it, but i know for a fact she wouldnt… Read more »

I would never want my partner to change what they are doing.
Let them be who they are…then It’s up to you to accept it or not.
Married people is different for them. I feel then you have the right to ask.

That’s all well and good as long as the other partner wants to converse with you, and in a civil manner. If not, then you may as well have saved your breath.

Yeah, so they can lie and deny? Or so it can turn into an argument? Or to be ignored? Or maybe to have it turned around on you somehow? Better yet, find someone you can talk to without all that b.s… if they care they’ll talk, they’ll discuss like an adult. And if they don’t? Well…

Lol mine would get defensive gaslight manipulate verbally assault until I went psycho bitch on him in return being fed up with his disrespect then I’d verbally return his abuse then he’d blame me when most were his actions and defensiveness.

Unless of course the other person doesn’t respect you enough to be honest and upfront about what you ask them. When you’re constantly being lied to, it’s pretty easy to assume.

i have quickly learned saying anything just makes it turn around and be my fault so now i dont even bother trying to speak my mind. the aftermath isnt worth it.

Should I ask why he’s messaging all the time even while we are dating?
Should I ask why he’s getting a message someone is telling him missing him while we are enjoying s morning cuddle?
Should I ask him why I have to be quiet and leave and wait while he’s singing happy birthday for someone on Skype but he hasn’t known my birthday yet after having 2 months and 2 days of intimate relationships?
Should I ask him why I have to wait outside of the store tied as a dog waiting for her owner? Am I his dog?

Even if you ask or explore if he or she doesn’t want to open up or hiding something for any reasons.
Someone can’t answer directly because it will hurt you or it’s hard for him.or her to admit.

Some ppl are scared to ask because of the bullying behaviour of their partner . Emotional abuse is real .Communication in a relationship is important. Couples need to be respectful to each other & really hear . Some ppl have unhealthy relationships where they live in a draconian world where they shout & insult the other person always to get their point across. I can’t live like that! Ppl should respect each other & have rules in communication . Don’t cross boundaries , shout , curse or insult . You might not agree , but you don’t have to belittle… Read more »

My husband is driving uber since 4pm today and now, 2am I can’t reach him at all… I can’t sleep. am I over thinking?? He is not driving for 10 hours… he spent more time out there and never be home lately. Seems like no care anything about home. I just want to have peace relationship. I don’t want to have argument..

…and hope they don’t start a fight and accuse you of being critical and controlling for wanting to talk about your thoughts and feelings related to their behavior. It’s then you know it’s time to move on…
#NotWorthItAnymore

Here’s the thing!!! In my opinion, most of the men they are good only in the beginning!!! They will do everything to please you, msg you, calling you in the middle of the night, he will make u feel special till he gets you!!! Then after sometime he’ll change… of course we’ll ask. If there is anything wrong? Then you guys will tell why we are nagging and you get upset so fast!!! Come on guys , your the one giving us reason to have doubt!!! Be real, you don’t have to pretend, you don’t have to be romantic to… Read more »

Finally Great advice!
To those that are saying it’s not easy. It is! If your partner doesn’t want to talk or gets angry. Leave them. They’re not worth your time if you can’t have a mature conversation about your relationship with them #aintNobdyGotTimeforImmaturity