Doesn’t matter if you change for whatever reason, if the person doesn’t truly love you, you lose them anyway. Players will play and use you until they get who they want.

I don’t agree, we all need to change to be with a “partner” otherwise we are just alone and someone else is there.

The humility to change brings great rewards. Change, at that point, becomes desired instead of feared.

Jay you dont need to change anything for me ??? you alone is perfect and make me feel complete

Is cheating n unfaithfulness considered to be in the part of imperfection???? If it’s so then I’m glad I’m not in love yet. Bullshit quote.

There are exceptions, you can be hurting without knowing it and if it comes to light it is your choice to change, better yourself

Im not changing myself for nobody they dont like me thats their lost not mine I had friends but not anymore dont know why but im ok without friends.

U no need to change to make someone love u , but u need to change some point after in relationship to make ur partner happy , but however plz don’t too much unfair to ur own self .., don’t forget to love ur self

Because knowing you have imperfections and not doing anything about them to improve yourself will make you so attractive. Nah, that’s just lazy.

Don’t have the mind that they’ll change,
If you’re not okay with one or two things in their behavior or attitude please hold and close your eyes let them go

Some people really do need to change certain qualities about themselves in order to have a healthy relationship. Change isn’t bad, unnecessary change is.

Par kon samghthe he?? everyone changes after they get new. Ones…. but hope..they will realize that there was some who was more important. .

Depends wat type of imperfections u carrying…if its equivalent to something that is enough to hurt again n again then u have to change those imperfections in order to have a healthy relationship.

There’s nothing wrong with change. Some people need to change things about themselves in order to have a healthy relationship.

Believe the smart ones r always into perfiction….no harm wz changing for the best of us…..only fools stay cemented and stucked to their own thoughts

I’ve made this mistake a few times. Act a certain way or not react the way I would’ve in the past because I was afraid of coming across wrong. Only thing it accomplished was making her think I was weak. Never again.

But all women want a man to change to conform to their little bullshit. Reality is women need to change to fit a man. Because abortion is vile. And a women’s emotions are why they commit abortion. So a women is to do as she is told. If she is allowed to think she kills her children. How do I know. I watched it over and over and over. 3 times 3 different women.

Rise in love by honouring the Omnipresent God in them and you….fall in love if you need them as a source, which creates a false unsustainable god.

If you can not be who you really are, there is no point in a relationship, unless your ok playing a part for the rest of your life , which doesn’t work!! Be yourself at ALL times 🙂

I already have lost her, (she left me instead) bcoz of my imperfections. N believe me that nobody’s going to love u with Ur imperfections. U have to change anyhow, it’s not that sm1 would love u unconditionally.. So stop expecting that BS.!? No matter how much u love that prsn, no matter since how many yrs he/she’s going to leave u shattered, Unless u provide/give them #Materialistic things.?
#Personalexperience.

I’m a firm believer in this but there’s also room for growth. What if the things the person would like for you to change help better your life and there’s. What if change makes a relationship stronger so why not give it a try. #DontBeAfraidToChange If you trying to build a successful future with one another. But both parties must agree to change for one another!

Talaga? That’s stupid! Did you guys watch Bridgette Jones again?

Or are you quoting “If you can’t handle me at my worst…”? The person that loves you may be trying to help you be a better version of yourself #immature

I felt like I couldn’t be myself. I had to pretend to be who he wanted me to be….broke up with him in 2011 but I have to say it still hurts because I never really noticed I wasn’t myself till after the break up?

Not completely true certain things people do need to change about themselves to compromise in a relationship.

A true Lover is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself – and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That’s what real love amounts to – letting a person be what he really is.