I love this…stop the bait and switch routine! Honestly, as your feelings get deeper I think you should treat each other even better. I’ve never understood why men seem to be so great at the beginning, then slack off once they “have” you.

How sad. Na iba nmn pananaw mo dahil lahat kyng san tau nag umpisa inaalis mo. Because of u want in a mature way. Na di ko din maintindihan. Eduard

Yes! Well it has to grow too. But not, start better for a little while, let deeper feelings develop, then start pulling back and making things a struggle.

Just the first few comments I read, what this means is everything you did to get your bf/gf and kept them, don’t stop doing.

My ex treated me and everyone amazing…within 6 years he became someone who didn’t care, he wasn’t who I fell for anymore

Its all fake and everything is just a show off.
Nothing stays forever.. no matter how much you love no matter how much u did for them.. this world is full of selfish people 😉

They just can’t do it! Or Stick to it! You may be the only one that may Be Committing and they may not! Sometimes once, A Person Have You as they say you want go no where! But, then they be the one doing things and CHEATING ON YOU being unfaithful in the Relationship. Sad! ?

Yes and no. In the beginning you should be learning about each other. You should never stop that. But as you mature so should your relationship.

So true. I think that’s the main thing why people end relationships. They forget that first feelings for each other.

Your great grandmother always said, “Start as you mean to go”. It must work as they were together 55 years before your great grandfather passed.

Haha I’m to old to stay out all night drinking , chasing other women !!!!! And I don’t think my old lady would put up with that shit now she did at first but after 30 years I don’t think she would now !!!!!!

Complete BS! You can give someone your all, but if they aren’t willing to receive it and give it then there is no future.

Navid Panjshiri you stopped bringing me flowers lately ?? &&&&& I’ve still kept all you’re love letters I want to be buried in them for when I die ❤️ so please write me more more more I love you forever and ever and ever!!!!!

This is so not true. You can give someone everything and treat them great everyday but if their not happy with one thing they know they can find something better else where and they will cheat and leave regardless of how you treat them.

True but the couple THEY have to both want it not just one side and really work on it but if your just there cause you feel like you just want to talk but actually you dont care really go now walk away and never turn back

That is a lot of work and costs. At the beginning of the relationship, you are trying to impress. It is a false surreal representation of one self.

Unless you cheated on her or talked to bitches behind her back!!!! Lol than you need to be the man you promised you we’re!! Lol same goes for women too cause they could be hoes

All I did is loved her.and gave myself to God.but wasn’t enough.only God will heel my heart.if God wasn’t in my life I would of been in a different situation.

U know guys these days would do anything to get u.. but once u fall for them nd they have got u.. they wouldn’t remain the same.. ?

So very true! Now we are happily married. Randy Barrios ❤? and we will always show our love for each other every day, for the rest of our lives. Even beyond our day to enter the Lord’s gates.

Facts in a relationship some act like they are still single flirting cheating and forgetting what feelings were in the beginning a realtionship is based on honesty faithfulness respect and trust and appreciation if they cant give that like in the beginning let go so they can find someobe more deserving

Well, it is not a matter of how far but how well..sometimes it just fades away the chemistry, the faith,the happiness, the flame all fades….don’t go for look they can deceived, don’t go for wealth even that fades away go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark days brightened.. I will just wait for the right partner

So true! Never stop “dating”. Make time to go out on a date. Couples need that. There are a few people in my family who has never stopped “dating” each other and they have some of the best marriages.

Lance in the beginning everything was the way I pictured it to be, we were always happpy and shit. But as the months went on, we changed. We no longer do the things we did, you no longer say the things you use to say. We’re different but it’s a good kind of different. We’re stronger and we have a better understanding of each other. Sometimes we slip up but we don’t give up. That’s real.

That’s questionable because I’ve been in quite a few relationships where I did what I was suppose to from beginning to end but still got treated like what I was doing never mattered to begin with the only way this statement holds true is if both people feel the same always