Humans put way too much emphasis on faithfulness. No wonder so many relationships fail. Too much expectation

Absolutely not! It is the ultimate betrayal. Partners may be able to forgive, but they will never forget. My boyfriend and I both agree that we have a zero tolerance for cheating.

I personally don’t think I could but I know a very beautiful person that they did and has been better since. It depends how resilient you are and your ability to rebuild your trust.

I think it depends on the type of person you are. I personally couldn’t sit there & pretend that everything is fine. We could talk, make peace, w.e. but in the back of my mind I would always wonder. I’d try really hard to not get all paranoid about it but I’d always wonder about him going out, who’s on the phone, etc…Before I get to that point though, I’d just wash my hands & move on. I refuse to stress &/ or cry over any man. Life is too short & you only get one. If I wasn’t good… Read more »

Uhh no?

There will be trust issues and insecurities.

If the person truly loved you they wouldn’t have felt the need to cheat on you to begin with.

No. Cheating is disrespectful. It’s hurtful. It’s intentional. It’s planned. It’s never an “accident” . It’s calculated. It’s cruel. It never happens just once. It’s a character flaw. It’s weak. It’s mean. It destroys families. It breaks you. It’s traumatizing. It’s unforgivable. You will never, ever forget. It’s painful. It literally breaks your heart.

No way. No matter how hard you try, every time he messes up you will think about it and he will feel like no matter what he does itll never be enough so its gonna end up being hell

Nope. That’s when you breakup and move on. I had twins with my recent ex. Found out he was emotionally invested / emotionally cheated on me. What did I do? What was best for me. Left him. Why? Because I have more self respect for myself to let any man including the father of my children to walk all over me, disrespect me and think it’s okay. Chose your happiness.

It’s hard to bury feelings. It’s like putting makeup on a pig. But, anything is possible as long as both people put in the effort. However our brains cannot just wipe out traumatic events. Being cheated on was almost as painful as being sexually assaulted. You deal with a form of PTSD after being cheated on. I wish people would just treat other’s the way they want to be treated.

Once trust is broken, it’s over. I’m too old to try to repair some shit with someone who CLEARLY wasn’t all in for the win since they thought it was a good idea to cheat. There’s 10 million plus penises in this world.

No. “How it was” was a relationship that produced unfaithfulness. There are “before” and “after” moments in your life and this is definitely one…..maybe it can be better but never the same.

Just still single it aint worth fixing what has been said or done…Just move on and enjoy life single and meet different people u never know u might ran into someone that has the same problem your dealing with from your last relationship. Relocate yourself start over and learn from your mistakes

Nope!
You may still love the person, however, the most valuable “TRUST” that glued the relationship is broken and tarnished!!! Both parties will never be in peace even if they get back together!!!

No…if there’s forgiveness and healing, it’ll be stronger.
If one or both partners lacks the drive to work at those things to happen, it’ll weaken until it finally shatters. Either way it won’t be the same.

No. But you can rebuild. From the ground up. Things can get better, but you have to work really really hard for it

Depends from person to person. I’m already someone who is more suspicious of people, someone who just seems to doubt everyone and I have a hard time trusting people’s motives…if someone ever cheated on me I don’t think I can recover in a healthy way from that, in the relationship. It would probably be done for me.

its like what the doctors says before doing an operation to a patient with sa 70/30% of survival, “PRAY, and believe there is a MIRACLE”.

No and the relationship is dead and over. I can never trust that person ever again

No. And it shouldn’t; it needs to improve and grow.

I’ve been there… Several times! Each time I had hoped it would get stronger and better. Guess what? Once a cheater always a cheater. Sorry but anyone who believes it can work has never been through it, and I’ve been through it many times! It’s over! Never look back! Sorry but save your heartache and be done! It’s like a broken vase. It can never go back to what it was and never as strong either!

Never. You can try trust them again, but the cheater has no consequences so they’ll easily do it again. In a way they lose respect for you. But they’ve already got piss all if they cheated, so best thing to do is walk, save yourself the grief!

A relationship is never exactly the same from week to week, year to year. You have to grow together in respect and love. It is a constantly changing thing. I am going on 28 years married to the same man. ❤️

No. Once a cheater will always be a cheater.
Nasa nature na nila yun.

I cheated. Figured out the hard way what I had was worth fighting for. Had to eat crow for 2-3 years. Being the center piece of a lot of judgement and criticism. We got married. And are very very happy to this day. No issues. She’s not one time thrown it in my face.

Never the same but it could possibly be stronger if you fall in love all over again, Only then the relationship will be grow. You also have to be able to trust your partner 100% again. Time and true love heal all wounds.