I always to my best to end things with truth, grace & integrity. Not lowering myself or being vindictive. When they go low, I go high.

Because most people start off a relationship being naive and blinded by reality. Even if they know it’s going to be a bad relationship they put themselves in that position anyways.

Oh yeah…because we all like to impress at the beginning and only show the good side, but it becomes really ugly at the end since we are done with acting…very sad but true

True it was fun in begining but then once time goes by they slowly reveal the bad side and u think u should stay because u love someone so much that u accept good with bad and think things will get better and they dont. 🙁 it’s sad I did everything in ex relationship trying to grow up together and make a better future but no. He cheated on me (said he never would) lol xD I fell for it. And he did everything he said he was never gona be. Towards the end I tried still being nice and… Read more »

End of a relationship . It’s a better thing , of ending a relationship than when you’re trapped in a relationship which discovered as a prisoner of someone who becomes a poison to my heart . I uncovered his mask at once but can’t escape my situation due to marriage obligations , ending in a frustrated , unhappy life

Going through a break up now…. This is very true. Not saying thing bad but I was played like field for 5 years OUCH this hurts.

Damn sure do I split from him 2 days after Christmas and woke up yesterday to all four tires on my car sliced open they are dirty animals!!!!!!

Accurate!! When my ex broke up with me, the name calling started, the yelling, the disregard for my feelings and the fact that he wants nothing to do with his child tops the cake. But I wish nothing bad on him, because I actually did love him.

So true, especially when they leave there family for there friends and just to go out drinking and partying. Real friend wouldn’t let this happen and only of there own selfishness. One day there friends are going to pay for there part in this. I really feel sorry for this person. I pray every day for my family whom they have hurt to Continue on with there lives. Don’t ever leave your family for friends especially when they are all drink and party and cheat on there husbands. It’s a shame Because they call themselves desperate housewives, shame on themselves.… Read more »

So true. My divorce was horrible because he so he didn’t want no fighting and problems like must people have. Well he was a prick the whole 3 years during the divorce.

Isn’t the idea that it doesn’t reach an end? Maybe its just me but that’s my goal. Thats why I showed all my cards from the start.

Not at all… relation ends.. only when u keep on knowing the person without any change.. that unchanged rigidity makes the relation end.. and after that u feel u were ryt to quit..

i believe in getting married…….but i don’t believe that a paper can hold the happiness of anyone, nor do I believe that anyone can hold a man with a matrimony or with 1, 2, or any amount of childrens, and there is no such a thing as a lyer, no judgements against no one…….everyone should be able to see what they have…..some choose to ignore, some others see it as, she or he wouldn’t DO THAT, some others will think there is too much involve she or he IS NOT GOING ANYWHERE, some others be in deniel but will fight… Read more »

It depends honestly, I think in the beginning people show you who they want you to see, to an extent, like all of the good things about them. Of course we all want that someone we like to see the good in us and like Us back – that’s normal. But, when you deliberately hide who you truly are from a person, only to find out they’re not at all Who they portrayed themselves to be in the beginning, well now that’s just another story altogether and this ” would make sense to that..

Yes. I was together with my boyfriend for 3 and a half (maybe?) years and got married after a few months. Everything was going well until my family and I noticed some changes happening to my husband. Bad behavior started to show off, bad habits, bad company, everything. I did everything, I shut up, stayed silent, ignored the things that I knew about him and his mom, just to save our relationship and our family. But what happened is that, one night, he got caught on act, I tried talking to him about it, after that, he just left me.… Read more »

I disagree, u learn only what u think u know an see about them, but u don’t learn what u don’t see an know about them, some may art good from d beginning an bad at d end, that doesn’t mean they are bad creature, an some may art bad at d beginning an good at d end, doesn’t mean they are completely good, an some may even be acting somehow that u can’t really detect who they really are from d beginning to end , but they are not bad or dangerous as u think they are, but they… Read more »

Never thought about it at first, but yes…Got to know perfectly the person “after” the relationship..

People make you see who they want you to see.. make you fall in love and then once they know they’ve got you, slowly but surely they start showing their true colors.

Sorry…..but any anyone can detect a bad relationship since the very first day……..that attitude, the behaviour, the calmness, or the persistence, the voice, laud , too laud, quiet, looking down or too quiet, the colors of neck, the sound of the voice crack, smooth, soft, hard, the time in between words intalling a persistent coversation their focus or distraction….and there is more so you traine yourself in who you want to install a relationship with

Agree, they will show YooHoo day think you want them to be how they can pretend to be all the good everything positive they entrap you because your entry and then majority of the time they then we’ll do a complete 180 and then you’re either married to them or you’re with them and you have a child so then you’re in trapped and then you feel guilty because of the child and that’s not how a relationship should be a relationship should be honest from the beginning honest in the middle and honest at the end yes there are… Read more »

And it is just not a relationship between two lovers. It happens even in friendships. I learned the hard way about how nasty some friends turned out to be and I decluttered my life of those toxic friendships. I feel more enlightened on how not to be so trusting in the beginning.

So funny but its true. Always a liar and cheater no matter what. It is in the blood. Unfortunately some relationships are forced to continue because of involvement of a ciild/ren. But all in all, its that trust, honesty and integrety have been broken – that means the relationship will never be a healthy one for all. Its for everyone’s best interest to separate and move on. Theres going to be that arguments, fights because of whats broken and eventually innocent child/ren will ultimately be placed in an unhappy environment.

Yeah it’s all fun and agreeing at first all the sex you want and happy times together then they start changing to worse then worser they lose respect for you then the true colors start to show then the dreaded words I am not happy then they usually talking to someone else or cheating which is the intentions of there heart , usually within the first year or so.

There’s some truth to that. Many people tend to act a certain way from the beginning when they have interest in you because they want you to see the good in them. I rather see both sides from the beginning so I can decide whether or not I want to deal with this person. Unfortunately doesn’t always work like that. Sometimes the mask doesn’t come off until at the end or close to the end of the relationship.

What u hv lost..don’t regret..Don’t be afraid to start over..It gives u chance to build even something better..Juz believe in urself..?