This happened to me… but it was a learning experience of 11 years and 2 beautiful babies… now that I have the real love of my life.. I’m like wow so this is true love…..he is the best

I do believe God pulls people out of your life for a reason just as He connects you with people. I always have to remind myself it is all on His timing not mine.

I guess if you didnt make the mistakes you wouldnt know real true love,Thank God he allowed me to know that kind of love !!

oh god. face it world. we spend 18-35 messing it all up and collecting as much hatred, resentfulness, regrets and mistakes. then end settling for that person at 40. after we have been run around thrown down and beaten till we hit the ground.

Been a long term girl my whole dating life. Not many under the belt, but that last one broke me. Cheated on me for a year. I asked what I did and he said “nothing”. I hope that was the mistake of my life and that the next is the love of my life.

More like after many mistakes, but I’m proud to say that I’ve never publicly trashed anyone. I’ve just taken it as a learning experience, my mistake and moved on. I don’t understand how people can trash someone who they once slept with, loved or even married.

I agree with this, but are they really mistakes? A crap relationship can just be setting you up for the best thing you never knew existed! You’ll know it and appreciate it once you’re with the right person.

Seriously, love of your life? As long as both parties keep agreeing with each ones demands and meeting expectations you both feel like your match is made in heaven. As soon as one of you breaks the deal the loml becomes a mistake. It’s simple, man want sex and an eye candy and women want financial security, protection, kids and ear to talk.

I was married to the woman I thought I would spend the rest of my life with only to discover she was not the one. Whether it was me or whether it was her is irrelevant. The woman that I love, unconditionally is Who I have and hold now is the one I was meant to be with for eternity. She is my soul mate. I love you Pamela Ann Johnson /Goree.

I wouldn’t call my ex husband the mistake of my life after all he gave me three beautiful kids. But I have moved on with another man and time will tell if hes the love of my life

Mine came after a 13 year mistake! Best thing that’s happened to me. I was able to find real love again. The kind you miss the second you leave after spending five straight days with. I want a future with him and don’t ever want to loose him!

& that mistake teaches you the lesson of the life.
1st love was mistake = Lesson
2nd time it was a worst part..
& i.e; final chapter of the lesson now it’s time to pass in all lessons & give a last chance to yourself.
Rather than fucking mistake & worst part..
Give a chance to love your self.

My worst mistake was the best thing that ever happened to me cuz It taught me valuable lessons. Turns out that same man was my true love 11 years later. Turns out people can change and today we are happily married.

I feel so disenchanted with men in general, I mean never in my life I ve been swept away, or witnessed it, so others may be lucky, I m not saying true love doesn’t exist, but it just doesn’t in my world. All I m in love with : myself and my daughter. Currently married but the feeling of being in love disappeared for good. There’s so much one can take and I think that’s how my brain is adapting to it. I don’t mean to be a naysayer to love but it’s my experience.

Totally true for me. I made the worst decision in a man and was just over the whole love thing when my true love showed up. We had spent 13 years apart but it was necessary apparently for us to make mistakes and learn. Now we can focus on us and be happy finally.

That’s not really true, Life is like a road to nowhere, you won’t know where you are until you get there so is true in relationships ?Each intersection is a new experience for which you have to learn from so is true in each relationship, they are not bad but a learning experience.???from which you hopefully grow more wiser and like a wrong turn don’t repeat ???

Give yourself a chance and you’ll find them an whose love will see beyond your mistakes. Someone who will understand you for all that you have been and accept you for what you have become and love you for what you truly are.

Sure hope so – just wasted more than 3 years on one of the biggest mistakes of my life : ( Not giving up hope that things will turn around in 2017.

I won’t call it a mistake but an opportunity that will make you appreciate more the love of your life.