Yes we do. Please just be upfront too. It is OK to not be sure at first, but don’t waste a good man’s time if you are in a relationship but don’t plan on committing to the same level within reasonable amount of time.

I think why can’t men or women not lie about how many they’re dating besides you. I have run into this alot. Why not let’s just be honest and quit stringing 2 or 3 along.

amen ladies know this if a man truly wants to be with u and u want to be him the only thing that will keep a man away is simple either money or transportation speakin from experience u can be in love with your woman but yet the funds can be an issues as well as findsn a cab service that wont over charge u

Yes.thats true but sometimes its hard for a man to know everything he needs a gentle nudge occasionally to know he is on the right track

Yea verily women you guys really are the left one fine man but listen if you just can’t find the right guy to protect you and I just leave them and just stay single because most men out there they just don’t care anymore you just have to find the right one

This is a true statement. If a man is truly interested in you he will make it known that he would like to get to know you better. If he doesn’t than he really is not into you. I have met plenty of men that I was interested in and my attempts to communicate have gone unreciprocated. I just move on since I understand that maybe I am not that particular mans type since he is just not into me.

It goes both ways but also will always be important. No matter what stage of the relationship. When one partner stops talking your relationship is pretty much doomed unless you manage to get them to start talking again.

Thats real. Thank you. Finally somebody nailed it. If i do all that and persue that means i want u in my life and everythin that comes with that.. i wouldnt waste my time persuing u if i thought it wasnt worth it.. thats a fact..

It has a point . But don’t forget you can’t play hard to get all the time giving something back with help encourage more of this Behavior

This is probably true in the beginning.. but he needs to keep being interested, and keep persuing you ~even after he has you… women need to show the same..

My woman is this type that believe she don’t ‘ve anything to offer in our relationship. That its only in my position to show love. And all she does is to be conscious of when i gets tired of the whole issue for her to tell me “You don’t care anymore” its really affecting me badly cause i love her so much. But she always feels she is doing me a favour by accepting to be with me. Hmmmm……

Well I guess I’m fucked then arent I…
Men are born to pursue! If he ain’t pursuing you then he ain’t that in to you…
I put in 1110% & get back maybe 25%, if I’m lucky….starting to think I’m being told something in a backwards kinda way….

Don’t let the bad ones discourage or waver the love your heart offers, ladies. All it takes is one man to show you how love should feel. You’ll remain together or separate and raise your standards of how a man will treat you.

That’s what we hope and long for. Problem are the players out there…men and women. They will do and say whatever to get you…and then dump you or cheat when they know they have you. Or you get the truly immature ones who want you but “aren’t ready” to commit…of course that’s after they got you to commit to them. That’s why I prefer to be single. We teach people how to treat us. That is true. Have class, expect class and eventually the right man/woman will step up. Players and children will fall back.

Relationship is a two way. Honesty and trust has a big role in every relationship. Open communication always the main thing, its either it could hurt someone or could please someone its does’nt matter atleast you know where and how to place yourself. Your not be guessing of the situation.. you wont be asking million why’s. Real love means accepting all the flaws. No rules. No exemption.

“If” he’s really a man.
We have too many boys in the world and never learn to grow up or refuse to grow up.

Sometimes, I find these posts contradictory. In one post it will say, never beg for someone to be in your life – and this one says, a real man will pursue you. Doesn’t that kinda mean begging or using the art of persuasion to pursue the person you ultimately love?

I spent year with a guy on and off telling me one day we were a couple the next it was just casual on top of verbal abuse total mind fuck. Should of let him a long time ago I would of saved myself alot of heartache but now I am done and its a lesson learned

I found that a lot of women want the Bad boy but want him to be good.. Good men get played so they just step out of the game. Most need to find themself first this is for both men and women !!!

Relationship take upfront communication, genuine intentions and consistent effort from both parties. If only one person is putting forth all the effort then there is no relationship.

Yes,
But then why do so many Western Women do nothing but play head games, or expect a man to read her mind.
If women were as up front as they expect and demand men to be.
A lot of problems would be solved.

Yeah right… and get dissed, rejected and burned by that woman… the cause you ask??? for being THAT WHAT SAYS IN THIS IMAGE.

The same goes for woman, because us men can’t do everything if the woman is not interested. It takes two to make it work, not one in a relationship, both must be interested, not just one. I mean why play mind games, If women were as up front as they expect and demand men to be. A lot of problems would be solved, because communication is the key to a strong relationship, and yet they say there are no good woman or men out there, if you look closely, there are good men and woman out there, nobody is perfect,… Read more »

Lol if a man is doing this then the woman has to be offering the same. You get out what you put in. So many people believe one person should be a slave to the other in a relationship.. those are the ones saying “there are no good men/women out there”