It shouldn’t be an effort; to me it part of being me. 🙂

if that person makes efforts, doesn’t worth! it all comes natural

True story. Nothing better than seeing the actions match the words

I really believe this. Even in their flawed way, they will still reach out.

No such thing as busy. If he / she is important a simple hi and hello makes a difference.

So true. If he likes you then he will make an effort to win your heart..?

I think I’ve done my part n did my effort to plz u & very dead serious in our relationship..but unfortunately u didn’t appreciate it..?

People are selfish these days it’s always one sided with one person doing all the effort though it’s sad

i received this lesson and there is no half way through them. patience is the key

Everyone will do nd see their happiness ,if they really care they wont do the things that really hurts to their partners.

Someone who doesnt want to be part of your life would affort to. fuck you admin.

At times when they want something. Never call or text to check on you but expect you to provide for them when they need something.

So true! So just sit back and watch…..cause actions speak louder than words. 😉

And if the effort isn’t returned…MOVE ON!

If I have learned anything about relationships and whom you should allow into the front row seats of your life, it is this. Life truth.

My husband called me everyday with a six hours time difference before we actually met for months, and flew 5,000 miles to come here so that we could be together. That’s a love story.

Mostly have tit for tat mindset and when it come to giving all become business mind set.
There’s still kind soul around …but rare…
Life n fate is something not within human control ..
Learnt to live by ownself is better after u had enough of ppl coming n leaving ..

Yeah, right! Nice one…that’s what I’m waiting for to happen, for too long now. So, whoever comes back first now & stay with me for good, physically…will win. =)

This is so true no effort no relationship. Best thing to do is move on.

Really? Me I don’t get to see friends as much as I want too. I work full time have children and a house to look after. I make effort to see friends as often as I can but after work and making sure people have eaten I am exhausted. Weekends catching up on my laundry, trying to garden.. (mowing and whipper snipper) shopping again my weekend is nearly over. So remember it is not that people may not want to see you they are just mentally and physically exhausted. How about you make the call or the coffee dash?

So true. Some people expect you to be the only person making the effort. They don’t understand the meaning of a two-way street. Selfish. God forbid you should confront them they get upset.

Sadly lots of people these days are selfish and only take. Even worse, there are folks that let those folks walk all over them.