You know, trying to explain people as a whole, is like listening to the same song….but only understanding the part that fits you. For instance, a song has typically three verses. But, if one is stuck on the “Hook”, they’ll never feel the meaning of the artist.

Just the selfish that think they should be served. But do very little for others or nothing at all.

i hope he reads this msg…

Who cares, let them be, it’s my life I’ll live the way I see according to human rules without hurting anyone that’s it for me

Very Much True that’s why I’m getting to the way I am staying to myself

Yes that is so damn true, I am experiencing that right now…

I tried to explain this to my soon-to-be exwife. She still has no clue that I don’t ACT…I REACT.

Truth… always find faults and judge u… he’ll nver knew that its all bcoz of what he shows…

Not true u notice and u know it’s because of what u did and he best thing to do after that is fallback from them give them they space

Therefore, I stay to myself so I don’t have that prob. ???

Then educate that person nobody can change if they don’t know they effed up

Very true. Even in friendships and they wonder why you drift away, when it was them all along.

That’s probably has some truth to it. I decided when I turned 50 that it was time to be myself and not care what people think, at the end even if I only have one friend left I will know that person is truly my friend.

Not if you don’t tell them. People aren’t mind readers and they’re creatures of habit. Your change in accepting their attitude is something you need to bring up.

That’s the smartest statement I’ve read today! People know what upsets you and they do it anyway and are surprised when you get upset!

That is generally the truth but every so often people do reflect on their behaviour – it’s a good indicator of being a real human being.

Haters will hate because there wrong. When they don’t get there way they make you the enemy. But in reality they are the problem and will not admit to it just deny it!!!! Lol pretty sad ?? #sadpeps

Peoples generally have weakness they alwsys try to hurt you through your vulnerable points. Hence always be strong, stand & walk tall,never give them a chance to hurt you by knowing your weaknesses.

This happened in my marriage… I changed when he stopped being reliable, attentive, the man he was when he chased me….so of course I changed too….no longer married…..

My behavior changed her attitude. I wish I could have seen it earlier. Fix yourself, and that will help make situations better for both of you.

Wow. That really hits home this week with an individual on the job site. Trying to explain the pros and cons of a product I know technically and as usual he constantly interrupts and will eventually accuse me of talking to him as if he were ignorant. So instead of blowing up or putting him in his place, I just say nevermind. He cannot see that the change of attitude is because of his ignorance

Thats true. I have made plenty of mistakes along the way. It seems like the change happened after it was too late for me to fix them. After looking back now sometimes you dont realize what you are doing is hurting your partner. Please be vocal with them and give them a chance to fix themselves. Keeping things bottled in and secretly hating your spouse is not healthy for either side.

Same here..Initially..we kinda close before..out of sudden..we’ve been stop calling or texting each other in this few months..Wondering what on earth is happening bwn us..I’m totally can’t figure out..Hope that ‘PERSON’ will notice this..?