Right. But you can’t justify saying this when the person is mentally abusive or not there…. That doesn’t count.

This is talking only about things like rough times… Depression, financial trouble, losing jobs, etc.

Women will say this to a man when she is making his life a living hell.

All to keep her victim in a box and easily controlled.

Yet, you say this to a woman.
You are cold and heartless.
You care nothing for how she feels.

So how is this fair?

True in most part but you have to make it work even though it’s not what you have perceived it to be, you just have to.. that’s the reality.. wish it doesn’t have to be that way… it hurts most but it will be worth while in the end…

Easy to love when thing are perfect and easy but to love during hard time, arguments, and when thing are messed up, u dont see it these day

Love some one when things are difficult. Patience is not only word, it is to be kept in each and every phase of life.. care for the one whom you love.. ?

Yaa..& my point is..I’ll make them happy..
I’ll luv them..I will care for them..if..if..
they do the same things to me..
Fair enough..☺️?

I agree. It’s very hard to love someone who’s at their lowest and is trying to push you away so that they don’t drag you down with them. But no matter what, stay strong for them and keep reminding them that you’re there for them and that you’re not going anywhere.

I dont believe in romantic love between two people anymore. I just don’t think it exists. One may think they’re in love but they’re not…it’ll go away. Having love for someone happens but one doesnt stay in love forever.

Depends if someones bad involves them going to prison. If that’s in anyone’s case, you’re better off not sticking around for the aftermath and getting dragged down under with them. It’s vitally important that we never lose our own individuality when entering in any relationship.

How long? How long will you do this? How long before the love dies? Not to hurt anyone’s sentiments but do we really expect love to remain for a life time? Is it not possible that love dies, just like other emotions? Or changes the way it influences a person or changes form?

BAM !! Truth right there. My ex bf actually sed ‘i just want an easy relationship’. Serously !!!! (Yet he has a nutbar x wife,2 grown kids) ya gotta work for a easy relationship, trust, communication,,, it just doesnt come perfect !!!

It is sad that so many couples don’t get this and just give up when things are difficult….. Many young couples just don’t seem to have a deep sense of commitment any more, while we older “dinosaurs” have stuck together and persevered through Hell and back……

It’s so easy to love someone when things are perfect and everything”s wonderful. But to love someone when things are difficult, when they are not perfect, when they are messing up, flaws are seen, mistakes are made, i think that what really allows you to see how much love really is there. Anyone can love someone who”s doing and saying all the right things being everything you want and need, when they have got all figured out, but to love someone at their lowest , to love someone despite how broken they feel, when they are lost, when you are… Read more »

No relationship is easy. Especially long distance ones. Or one who is always on the road driving a truck. If two people want the relationship to work, it HAS to be both parties otherwise, someone will drown doing it all. Show effort for the one you think you are so in love with. Make time, do things together, it doesn’t have to cost much. And most important. Don’t take each other for granted and don’t use each other. It’s built on trust, honesty, and believing that it can work out if you want it to. Everyone deserves to be happy.… Read more »

I agree. Most people get into a fight then call it quits. It’s like a book I read. Modern Romance. Nowadays everyone is on POF or Tinder or some kind of online dating. And they just can’t stick to one person. They going on a date and looking for their next victim at the same time. With technology nowadays it’s hard to just find your next door neighbor.

Exactly why I’m single ! , besides not wanting to settle of course .
They see me naturally happy when we 1st meet but then they start seeing my dark sides because they expect happy go lucky and relaxed 24/7.
When I’m alone can be in any mood I want , not there’s ” Nothing to be Anxious about .”, no $hit hence the name .
Even with talk therapy etc it’s not a life fix still gonna have days that aren’t easy & am a pain in the ass lol

That’s so true. But sometimes people who have gotten hurt get scared and run the other way instead of sticking with that person. They think everyone will hurt them in the end ?

True……..through the good and the bad, the happy and the sad, the ups and downs, the smiles and the frowns!!!!! Love is a powerful drug….you get hooked every time!!!

Amen, I don’t understand how some people can be in a long term relationship, which will eventually lead to marriage, but can’t grasp the concept of “THOUGH THICK AND THIN” its not always going to be sunshine & rainbows, some days you have to work harder than others. Its always easy to love someone when everything is wonderful & things are going great, but the real test of your love is when things are messy because if you can get through that, then you can get through anything together ❤

You can really say that someone love you if they will stay on the most difficult times of the relationship. If not?then its all drama. Love is not just full of happiness, it also have trials and hardships where partners must face to survive and protect the relationship. If one surrenders and quits then he/she doesnt love you. He/she love the moment you were both happy. Matured and serious relationship can withstand all trials and hardships together. Dont enter a relationship if you cant stand the trials and will just quit whenever you like. Stupid people quits they dont know… Read more »

Jade, I wish you could see this post. Though we’ve been apart for almost 3 months, and you clearly don’t want to talk to me, you said you loved me. I trusted you. I wish you really would’ve come to me with problems we were having instead of our “friends”. I love you, and I always will. You were my first, for almost everything. I don’t expect the feelings in return, right now anyway. I just hope you can accept me again some day, and realize how much you mean to me.

Some don’t want to go through the work of maintaining a relationship. They want everything easy. That’s why is hard to find real and true love. I have given my all but I guess they didn’t have the patience like I do. No one is perfect if u find flaws then u look passed it for love

Commitment means loyalty, being faithful, working as a team through the tough shit and loving eachother through the good, the bad and the ugly….but you cant work as a team with someone who is dishonest or works against you. Please pick a compatible mate lol…some people are really selfish and toxic.

Unless the bad equates to him screwing several people behind your back then yes this is totally accurate ?. Some bad just can’t be tolerated you gotta respect yourself and have your limits!