Everyone has a dating story, terrible exes, and so on. You have to learn from each one what you do and don’t want in a relationship. It’s gonna happen! I’ve been through them, maybe not as bad as others but I still have feelings at the end of the day. I’m now dating a wonderful man who’s good to me, accepts me for me, and loves me inside and out.

I learned that even after 30 years of marriage when it ends in a divorce if you remember that you truly cared about each other at one point you can become friends with hard work and remember your children even though they may be grown adults watch you and that they are a part of each one of you hating each other does not behoove anybody

No more 2ndh chances. And for once I want to me a priority and not an option. But never again being a boyfriends maid/mom while he lays on his ass all day!

Ive found people who really cares for me, and who will be there for me in times of despair.. People come and go, so stick and keep people who loves you, thanks for those people.. #TrustIssue #KnowYourWorth #LetGoIfYouHaveTo

-Always trust your gut instinct. Always.
-You shouldn’t have to beg someone to love you or give you their attention.
-Communication and honesty are very important.
-Keep faith and trust in God.

I’m a survived a relationship I did not know I was in codependent abusive relationship. But I hate being the man who says I was abused by this person. Today I tried to get a restraing order and the judge laugh at me. I even told about how she attack me with a knife. I’m learning to breath after spending this year In jail I’m moving on.

Love was lost… but over the course of the year I realized that it was she who gave up and not my fault… I did everything I could, but she was a lost cause and not worth my effort.

Never relied someone broken promises lol…i’d learned more to opened mind for more understanding,Accepting things not happend for many reasons,and being always a positive in every circumstances..and I always want for better not just by myself but for everyoned i care for.

God has a reason for allowing things to happen. I may never understand His wisdom, but simply have to trust His will. God has His good pleasure.

Self sabotage is tricky to unlearn. Love is limitless. Dreams do come true. Hope is oh so much better than despair. Not to let projection from others touch ones heart. To speak up even if people may ridicule you. Earth is spectacular. People are magical. Animals laugh at silly things. Family is wonderful. Friends are imperative. Love is constant and unbreakable. Music saves lives. Even in madness strangers will be there for you. Bridges can be built via satellite. We are only just beginning to understand ourselves and it’s weird. Truth and integrity is of utmost importance. Mental health is… Read more »

I’ve learned to never listen or believe what someone tells you. Words and promises don’t mean crap. But I’ve also learned that not everyone is the same and you have to treat each relationship as if you’ve never been hurt before.

I’ve learned that I don’t need a man to make me happy and that sometimes you just need to pack up your stuff and move 1500 miles away to be happy.

I’ve learned that being bornt without silver spoon in your mouth was consider as a gift from God,because you will see the real people surrounding you. The real people who truly love you and accepting you as what you are..

Ive learned that even tho people have been around you acting as if they support you thru your deepest struggles, when s*** really hits the fan and you at your breaking point.. Those you expected to be there are the first to turn away even family.. Ive learned that complete strangers with a pure heart will be there for you more than the ones thats supposed to.. Most of all learned to never depend on anyone just keep pushing and continue to have faith and it will all fall in place?

Ive learned not to trust anyone except GOD! He will never leave u alone.. and i have also understand that sometimes stranger understands us better then our loved ones!!

Don’t start a relationship with anger, you’ll chase a good man/woman away. I shouldn’t hurt my next cause of my past. He doesn’t deserve to be punished cause of my ex. so forgive the past and pray for the best.

I’ve learned: don not trust anyone quickly and love relationship is nothing. So, enjoy your life. If you’re single or if someone ditched you, don’t ever think that you’re unlucky or other girls have caring boyfriend lover. No one is unlucky in this world. Some people get everything so early and some people get a bit late or too much late, but it doesn’t mean that we have BADLUCK.. If someone is honest and truely loves you then he will come one day on right time. God give everything to every person but everything happens on right time.. So, don’t… Read more »

-More and more trust on the Allah Almighty as HE never abandoned me or let me get hurt. HE is making me super solid to face this world.
-(Still) learning to live alone specially since my father died at the start of this year.
-Just re-started trusting my own guts.
-Have to learn to be my own best friend.

That I am in control!! People’s ability to hurt, anger me is my decision!! Love those who treat me well– it’s so rare to have someone truly care about my happiness & I’ll keep reciprocating & appreciating!!!

I’ve learned to take more risks and telling guys up front what I want and if they can’t/won’t give me that then to stop wasting my time. I agree with Jiki Jefferson, that when you are at a breaking point you do find out who your real friends are and who really loves you.

I have learned to never let anyone continue to disrespect you. That “I’m sorry” is only truly sincere when the wrong is not continued being done. I’ve learned who I can trust and who I can’t. I’ve learned that not everyone who says they love you really do, because if they did, they wouldn’t use your weaknesses against you. I’ve learned to love me.

That sometimes a little space is what you need to make a relationship work. My guy and I took two months apart after having a difficult year and we’re stronger than ever.

I have learned that in a blink of an eye lives can be lost and taken from us so cherish your loved ones and live like it’s your day. We never know when our last day on earth is so cherish every moment.

What I’ve learned? I spent so much time being the man she needed that I had forgotten to be the man she wanted. Better luck next time.

Dont lower your standards just to give someone a chance, always trust your gut instincts the first time, never compromise your morals just for someone you love, never tolerate negative destructive behaviour from anyone, do whats best for you even if it hurts, never let anyone take you for granted and dont tolerate pathelogical lying