Stop trying to make your man read between the lines, be a real woman and say what you mean and feel. But let me guess “your not mad” right and “there’s nothing wrong”.

It’s amazes me how often this is missed. Learning that being direct is the best approach because hinting doesn’t work.

Your posts are bull shit I’m un following you at midnight about 90% of your post attack the male species rather than uplifting both parties for the betterment of love.

Unless she is very introverted, then if she mentions it at all, it’s bothering her #lessonsof2016

They friggen mention everything more than once… they’re like living mentioning machines

Haha, she said it one time in April. Moved out Christmas Day. Gave me no notice but the moving truck in driveway.

But when I stop talking about it…I don’t care anymore.

No matter how many times you mention it some people just don’t get it?

Well… if I mention something even once it truly bother me but I’m not repeating it several times if this hasn’t gotten in his brain but in time this surely become out and then this could too late to him anymore fix it ☺

If she mentions it twice it’s bothering me too. Get the hint ladies stop bitching . You’re a woman not a princess . Do it your damn self . We aren’t your slaves

Yet as a man if you mention it once,
It’s still bothering her and she doesn’t care how you as a man feel.

Then women wonder why men don’t share their feelings.

Cause women feel like only their feelings & need for attention matters.

If there is something bothering either of you sit down and talk it out don’t jump up and go to moving or storming out of the house. Communicate with each other rationally and calmly. It does wonders to a relationship.

Why mention it after the first time….if they repeat it over and over again they obviously don’t give sh#* so just hush and observe….it speaks volumes

You would think that this isn’t rocket science but hey god forbid they give a fuck or pay attention to that type of shit..some of them lol

And when im mentioning it more than hundred times, that means bring me to a mental facility coz sooner il be crazy.??? Calm me…. Pamper me…. Reassure me… And dont laugh at me. It aint drama.. ???

The problem is. Dammit u have to mention it… Rather then leaving.. going with someone else… Then saying it was bothering me… When there is no coming back

If women would be more straight forward and to the point, men would understand what you are trying to tell us and we wouldn’t have to decipher your words or lack of.

If they do not listen or stop doing something that really bothers you- It is simple you are not important enough. Don’t waste your time.

Vary true so always stop what your doing when ever she wants to say something even if it is love you it will never sound more sweeter or fell more deeper and really listen to what she has to say everything else in life doesn’t mater or compare to what she has to say or talk abut so show her you love her and give her all your time and if you do you’ll mite be saprised she will give some of it back to you so you can do what you want to do

Conmunicatiin works both ways! In my case I was not able to express how I feel! My husband was a narcissistic bipolar with a bad temper!;Consider some of you ? lucky!

Men and women are really from another planet. You have to spell it out for them how or what you’re feeling. They think on different wave lengths and can’t read minds. Tell them the problem or they can’t fix it. That’s how things get thrown out of proportion and a mountain turns into a mole hill. We usually see things quite differently than they are & visa versa. Just put the cards face up on the table. It’s so much easier. Been there and learn the hard way. Life is just too short to worry & blame each other. Just… Read more »

It’s so much easier just to be forward about it and straight up say, “this bothers me”. I am super passive, so that’s the hard part for me. But I’m trying to get better.

Funny, all the women commenting about this, it goes the same way towards females, if a man says something more than once, it’s the same thing. doesn’t work just one way. don’t treat it like it does.

I do this and still doesn’t get it. All i get in response is you hv said this five times move on . You think they want to change because it bothers you….hell no!!

Why do so many men have the attention span of a five year old? She wouldn’t mention it if it wasn’t important to her. And it’s probably really easy for you to do but since it’s not important to you (because of your ego), you refuse to. The relationship isn’t just about what you want. Think of all the things she does for you without complaining.