Don’t settle for anything.Wait? What? Hmm “I don’t think so” That guy over there like, “It’s a boy!” No duuh. You can be happy by yourself. I mean who plays those types of games? Not me. I pull up on a female like, “Where your man?” before I move forward and waste anymore time with a meaningless conversation. If she responds with a “I got a man, he treats me good.” Then I’m not prolonging the conversation anymore. I’m just not there. What we gone talk about, him? Nada. Nada.

There are so many good men and women out there..I’ll patiently wait on my King..God is preparing is for each other

This is the number one rule just behind loving yourself enough not to compromise

I agree……it’s important to wait for the right one, please don’t settle.

I will wait in hopes or return once time has given the chance to grow.

Agreed & that’s y i m waiting for my soulmate… hope to find her soon?????

It’s SO much better to be by yourself and lonely than to be with someone and be lonely ?

Men need to be honest and faithful and make me smile every day

You can be happy and also be lonely. Miss having someone to share my day with good or bad.

Try to deal with loneliness..ni to apne hi decision pe regret hoga..

Don’t always say, “there’s still time”, or “maybe next time” because
there’s also a concept of “it’s too late…”

Where are the good women ?? The ones that will
Love a guy for his personality. Even if he’s chubby.

Had many possabilities, but none have quenched the thirst my soul longs for, and none were worth feeling miserable just to have the appearance of happiness.
Become happy by yourself, and the happiness you long for, will find you.

I’m lonely, but I sure can wait. Iv’e waited for more than a decade, I can wait for a few more years. Haha

And get used to everyone saying, “you’re reasonable standard is too high.” You deserve that high, but reasonable standard!

I had a list of non negotiable qualities. Shared faith, devotion to faith, family, then work, good kids, intelligent etc.

As people would try to set me up or whatever, I’d ask, “what church do you go to?” That initial question saved me from dozens of wasted hours getting close to a person that didn’t share my life views.

Lol, my husband meets all the non negotiable qualities and still keeps me on my toes. Perfect!

I have been waiting for a long time.. I haven’t meet real man yet. I don’t know when the right time we will meet.

yes it is worthy to wait, but dont settle for less…loneliness sometimes is better than to be in a wrong relationship

I’m glad I can say I’ve kept a clean slate and never had a kid with someone who won’t be part of my life. I refuse to settle. I deserve someone as awesome as myself.

I’m my case you’d think the older the guy is the more mature he is an accepted how you looked until you got healthier from almost starving to death and working too hard and walking too much and would treat you right.because the action movies I grew up with and the people I hung around with with my Father was that they were the good guys and the bad guys were the bad guys.but apparently .. .. ..

Who waits!!! When you can travel and fall into it. That’s the problem with many, they think it looks a certain way or a certain someone. Not knowing, they have no control over it at all.

I really need to be reminded sometimes. Becomes pretty difficult not to have someone to count on, to pamper and call ur own. And most importantly at this point in time when that help in whatever domain counts. Suck

We were all created in His image, and yet we were each created different and unique. No two people are alike. No hearts beat to the same rhythm. If God had wanted everyone to be the same, He would have made it so. Therefore, disrespecting differences and imposing your thoughts on others is an amount to disrespecting God’s holy scheme.

By: Sham’s Tabrizi’s
Fourty Rules of Love

Indeed . . . . never settle or compromise and if things are not happening, get out there in different ways and formats. Don’t wait for someone to knock on your door, just get out there and socialise.

Totally agree with this. Although easier said than done! Its a struggle, especially as a single father. I’d love to find “the one” or someone I’m compatible with and connect with. But I know when the time is right it will happen.