If a girl has tried getting with your guy before you got together and continues to try to do so I have an issue. Also if he has dated them and it ended terribly I have an issue. If it’s a friend and be openly tells me who they are and explains it I have no issue. If a guy is open and honest and his girl asks who they are, they should be respectful and answer any questions. And guys if your girl has an issue with one don’t call her crazy or like she doesn’t trust you(that makes… Read more »

Ok. What about the women cutting off all contact with guys? This is a load of crap. Nothing but man hating requests. All this crap needs to stop. Just as much as women want there man to be whatever it is. You should take a deep look into yourselves. Ladies.

But a Queen will cut off any man pretending he don’t have one at home already. Because integrity works both ways. He chasing tail who’d be ok with second best but don’t know what to do when a number one says no thank you.

Friendships with the opersite sex is absolutely normal its when flirting starts to happen that you need to make a decision, is this worth lossing you relationship over?
Anyone with a friend of the opposite sex who is in a relationship should have respect for that friend by not putting them in that position if doubt.

If it’s another girl or old girlfriend. If the woman is a sister, niece, or a mom, the so called “real man” needs to grow a pair and tell the jealous, psycho, control freak to get some help or move on! No “real woman” finds it necessary to control their significant other..

This is only part true. I mean what if it’s his mom, I wouldn’t cut out my mom just because she don’t like the girl I am with. Also who is saying things are threatened. Some women and men are just the jealous type. In any case what you think is threatening and what I think it is aren’t always going to line up. Context is always key, I strong support the idea of talking about this within the first week or two. Set up limits with each other and know each others comfort zones. Or you will end up… Read more »

My one ex accused me of sleeping with every guy I knew including the mail man. His theories made me feel like I was a possession. I also wasn’t sleeping with anyone and got sick of his jealousy and broke up with him. There is such a thing as jealousy

Hahahah let me get this straight a woman can have male friends have one night stand and still be friends Making his new man hang out with them even tho it makes ik uncomfortable for him but if her new man has a female best friend it a problem bc they think they are fucking. BS

I give kudos to a male friend of mine who broke our friendship becaus his gal continued to feel threatened from me. The gal, is a good person too, just wish their were no casualties. But this man, is very stand up.

I disagree, sorry. The woman should have total trust in her guy and believe that this other woman is no threat. If she asks him to ditch the threatening women and she won’t let it be then she will push her guy away anyway and if he goes, well he wasn’t worthy of her in the first place!

This is 100% true, but also works same way with her. If a person wont do this….your an option….there are no true feelings there. None. Cause a man or woman who truly loves you…would never put you in a position to even have to do this…he or she will prove on daily bases how he or she feels…no room for jealously…if more people did this…less people would have doubts. There is usually a reason behind jealously….doubt in planted somewhere….but if one truly cared…they talk about.

Anyway, like I was sayin’, shrimp is the fruit of the sea. You can barbecue it, boil it, broil it, bake it, saute it. Dey’s uh, shrimp-kabobs, shrimp creole, shrimp gumbo. Pan fried, deep fried, stir-fried. There’s pineapple shrimp, lemon shrimp, coconut shrimp, pepper shrimp, shrimp soup, shrimp stew, shrimp salad, shrimp and potatoes, shrimp burger, shrimp sandwich. That- that’s about it.

To me it’s about communication.. We should all be able to speak to each other as adults and have a real conversation about what’s really going on. Cutting someone out should be the last resort. At the same time staying in touch with old hookup buddies if they still have that dynamic isn’t healthy and it’s time to give that ultimatum, but try everything first. If he can’t talk with you then there’s a problem with maturity to begin with.

preach … so so true
“Stop, you’re just jealous. We’re just friends… it’s just silly banter.” Yea ok. Those words should be red flag trigger words for your gut.

This is something I’m going through and I don’t want to let it get to me but it comes to a point where he tells his best friend I miss you and love you but he doesn’t say that to me.., it’s like why am I even trying anymore.. why should I fight for something that seems one sided.. maybe it’s time to just let go and move on… I’m honest and loyal but something just isn’t right…

Pffff… I’d never ask my boyfriend to give up a certain friendship and I would not accept it when he asked that from me. In a good relationship, you trust each other. Period! Pretty shocking to see how many people here would dump their friends instantly for a relationship. It makes you wonder how real these friendships actually were.

A real man will carry himself as a gentleman regardless but will also leave no room for doubt in his actions and in the way he presents himself that he is with a lady at all times. Secondly, a real man would not lead on another woman or impression upon her that he holds interest in her when he already has another and in all honesty, the woman should in every way match this.

Did this months ago before my current relationship was officially underway. And not to brag but it feels amazing to be able to have no outside distractions whatsoever.

Umm i just called it off with my kids dad cause he couldnt stop talking to his so called best friend ! She was calling him at all kinds of times and he ended up picking there friendship over mine and his relationship ! He didnt believe she was causing our problems when she was always the reason we fought ! O well his lost !

True. Plus I think any decent female will back off once the male is in a relationship as to not make the female in his life feel concerned. It’s about respect, and boundaries even if you trust him/her.

My ex and I will always be good friends but out of respect for his wife we both don’t see each other or text as we understand there will always be chemistry and honesty I see her view point.

This goes both ways. A real woman will cut shit off too. Both partners need to respect the other. If someone is uncomfortable with something, there’s a reason and it needs to be examined.

Yea but what bout the female?? Can us men expect the same from them? Will they cut off any male that threatens the relationship? My money is on no. Cuz there’s a huge double standard here..they’ll come up with any excuse. “He’s just a friend” is my personal favorite. A guy friend is just a guy laying in wait for his opportunity. Only exception is if the guy is gay.

It’s different to have doubts in your mind about someone, and to feel something deep in your gut… if I’m just being ridiculous and my head is telling me things, I’ll step back and watch it unfold because maybe I’m wrong. But if I feel sick to my stomach over someone, they’re out. I shouldn’t have to deal with that bullshit just because you’re “kinda friends” with some chick that I don’t like..

If you really are his woman, than other woman shouldn’t be a threat to you or your relationship unless your insecure and giving him an ultimatum. That being said if my woman was uncomfortable with my relationship with a certain person regardless of there gender, I would definitely take it into consideration, maybe she is seeing something that I don’t.

TRUTH! Some boys just can’t leave that one girl alone tho. And if that’s the case he needs to be single. They like to keep one on the side for when shit gets tough in a relationship. That way they got someone to bounce back to.