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Or maybe she is ignoring you and hoping you pick up on the hint that she is possibly doing something behind your back that is destructive to your relationship.
Not good, does not create connection and mostly fosters distance in the relationship. I lived with this, the relationship failed.
80% of women use silence a game, its a way to manipulate people, to control the situation and sway it in their favour
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It’s not a good thing when you finally realize you’re an option and not a priority.
I would say it’s not gender specific…..when I’m hurting I go silent too and I’m sure I’m not the only man to do so ?
Yep Talk about it…Silence is death to a relationship!!!!
I have to learn this skill. I can’t even ignore a text when someone is even on my worst of sides.
Don’t be passive aggressive this is just pathetic , if you need something you better be vocal about it people can’t read your mind
Men are worthless. They don’t give a fuck about your feelings. It’s how do I look in front of my boys. Not. How have I hurt you. What could I have done differently. Or I am sorry. I did that. Didn’t realize how much pain I would of cost us.
No. it you had it coming.
So many people on here seem to NOT have people/significant other who often tunes out when you try to vocalize. For those us us who DO have people we are practically talking through a megaphone without response, you begin to go silent because you feel like you’re not heard when you DO talk, so why talk at all? Sometimes people need to have you withdraw to wake them up because they don’t seem to recognize your hurt in words. The saying that “you don’t realize what you have til it’s gone” is very true.
Yea and it’s not good couse one hurts for her silence ant the answer it drives the other crazy to we’re he don’t care who gets in his way and has nothing to lose
Silence happens when you come up against someone who hurts you but is always right, and always has to have the last say in an argument ?
What do boys need to do to get her back in their life? Some boys don’t want to loose their loved ones, even though their girl ignores them…
It’s not a good thing but when the other side refuses to listen to your reasonable demands it’s time to walk away. Why do for someone who can’t lift a finger for you?
Works the same way for men. I can ignore a woman to the point of being called “hostile” that is a two way street, not exclusive to women.
Not just when they are hurt. They do this also when they don’t know what they want. You’ve been friends for years but that doesn’t matter to them and they will do what they want for themselves only. Sorry going through this right now and it sucks big time.
I can only imagine the depth of the hurt I caused u. Please know how sorry I am. The guilt and grief consumes me daily. I love you more than you’ll ever know and pray one day I can show you -jaw
That will just ruin things if she keeps quiet and says nothing..bcos women get hurt even at the drop of a hat….and men won’t be having any clue about what they did…to think that only a girl feels hurt is so unfair..
Sometimes we opt to keep silent just to avoid arguments. It’s much better to hide what you really feel to escape the pain instead of looking for a convincing explanation and ended up being called a “cheater” even you never cheated on him.
It works both ways as well….some guys do all, with not even a hint of appreciation. Same for women I know, and probably more so than it is guys unfortunately
This is very true and that was me, I keep my own silence and distant myself to those that hurts me, I can forget but the pain still remains.
Again,
It’s all about women.
They say Women express more through words than men do.
Since this is the case.
And this post is about silence.
Then it is safe to say that more men suffer pains through silence than women do.
Especially when their dealing with an abusive spouse.
Cause women are abusive in their behavior.
We usually talk but if we’re feeling like we’re talking to a wall with it bouncing off, that’s when we stop talking.
Understand that women and men feel and think differently one is emotional and the other is logical. So its not that he’s not listening, but he’s not understanding because the way women talk, is like trying to solve a riddle sometimes, you expect a man to know what you are thinking and what you mean when you say certain things but the truth is most men don’t get it (i didn’t). So help us out try being direct. Don’t dance around it, hit it on the head. Guys you gotta do better by asking questions, so you can understand completely,… Read more »
Overthinking is one of the greatest bullshit being found in women which causes a whole damn lots of problems, and they chose to blame their men for not caring them enough.
But please, tell your men what is happened in your brain before being silent and deny to shout it out.
Ignorance will just ruin relationships, and the actual medicine for it is communications. Use this well.