Amen…..it takes a strong person period to allow themselves to be that vulnerable again…

Once bitten..twice shy….you gotta be a star for that to happen

Agree! waiting for the day to come 😛 I want to see how brave am I 😀

its not just a one that her heart broken its one that’s had it damaged really bad lots have them broken but not all all have them tore out

It’s so hard to find a relationship that’s faithful and don’t lie

I did then got it broken again but now it’s just standing still

& We have to rebuild her confidence… & have to support her to the end (Y)

Especially If the one she is opening up her broken heart to was to the one who broke it.

Omg! So true. Opening back up to someone is one of the hardest things ever once you’ve been crushed by a love.

I hope and save my hart as i try my best to save her hart from all this

Thanks for sharing Stef…. You really are the real thing

Sad but true it can’t get more real than that….

This isn’t one sided. This can go for men too. Once a man is hurt the first time, it takes alot for him to open back up again.

Yes she did in a weird way! Then she got mad when i could not read her mind!

I love love love this…sadly I’m not brave enough yet…

Don’t worry guys. Your hearts are incapable of breaking. ???

Unconditional love is loving someone through the pain you don’t just stop. it might change the kind of love from being in love to just simply unconditional love loving someone in spite of themselves

And chances are that relationship will fail every time. Your heart must heal before you can get in a new relationship.

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”

I wouldn’t necessarily call it selfishness however.

I always run into this!!! I’m use to them….until they make it seem like I’m the one who broke them. Then, I might leave myself!!!

So bravery for some women is just going from dude to dude to dude getting each one to take care of her and her shit? Not saying there’s not men out there doing the same thing, but we don’t call them brave, do we?

This is true, but men are just the same. It is very painful to be compared to the last one that broke his heart.

It’s crazy how much one person can affect u once u’ve fallen in luv..& it’s crazy & unbelievable how much one person can change u that urself can’t imagine turned out to be a stronger person once u’ve broken hearted..U can find urself totally amazing the changes of u..Truly amazing..U should thank to that person who had breaking ur heart..?

Or we can get over the victim mentality and say that anyone who risks getting their heart broken is simply in a brave pursuit of ultimate happiness.