They say men don’t cry or care or just sleep with anything with a pause! Well not this guy. I care to much and hurt to much and been lied to cheated on and it tears your soul apart!

When you have to put passwords on your phone…delete messages….constantly talk to your ex…and when you are at the beach, you contact another woman, who lives there….(he did this WHILE we lived together)….sorry boo boo….that’s cheating as well…he did this WHILE we were together….but I am told I cheated by kissing someone (friendly peck) and curling up with my ex who is a friend because it was cold….AFTER we broke up….

Ok men and women prove exactly themselves everyday with being up in my Shit no matter who you all are with their talk of bs and actions of themselves everyday for none to talk the truth with themselves to my face and watch and follow for none to pay attention to their own and realizing who women and men are with themselves

People saying this should be gender neutral you’re missing the point. the point isn’t just that cheating affects who ever is cheated on, it’s specifically for men because there are so many other posts about the women side of this very few posts have any regard for men. Men are always seen as the problem with pretty much anything. If a man cheats he’s considered the lowest kind of asshole but if a women cheats there’s always a boat loud of reasons why and it usually ends up somehow being the man’s fault. So all this is saying is that… Read more »

I’ve found that a woman is looking for one thing.security. and she will play with a mans mind until she gets what she wants.she won’t hesitate to play games with 2 or 3 men at the same time trying to reel one of them in to get what she wants.woman can really suck

Well said bro
It changes the way we look at love.
All those beautiful quotes
And poems that used to mesmerize we now r so painful that you just wanna hate all that you loved once..
All those romantics songs now seem seamlessly foolish without any reason. While others r happy enjoying the live of their partner we r in a mess as to know why we r the ”chosen one.”
All we love now r the sad ones.
And that epic dialog from PKP2
“”Bhai bas maa ka pyaar hi sachha hota hai
Baaki sab bekaar ki baatein hain…”””
Hahhaah

All year round, you will see posts about what cheating does to a girl and all that.
One day, when the post is about men, all the women go mad and starts with the “same for women” or “you don’t know wat it does to women” or “girls get cheated more often than men…” and all those crap.
The post clearly says: its not only women, men get hurt too. But no. The women can’t see that. Whenever they see something that is not supporting them, they start barking.
This just shows how insecure you are…

Cheating on anyone does this. It ruins the way a person looks at themselves, their life. Makes them question everything. It is horrible.

The women that reacted with the “laugh” emote are some sick women. I would love to call them inappropriate names but theres no point. By doing that you have already let everyone know how worthless, insensitive, and sexist you are. Plus many other things.

When you truly love someone and hear they have cheated, it’s all you think about. Where they went, how it all played out, did they even think about me, was that person somehow better than me? You feel your heart drop to your stomach and start going through denial. The denial is the worst thing in my experience, when you are telling yourself lies and thinking what happened truly did not take place. You cry, and not able to concentrate how you normally do. Still trying to wrap your head around that act him/her and the other person took part… Read more »

But that’s only if he’s a real pussy! No one can take something that is truly yours. If she’s messing around on you, she was never yours to begin with. Why be upset about that? Find yourself someone who truly respects and loves you.

Unfortunately marriage is not respect anymore, man and woman suffer the same, we all feel that pain to be cheated on but our kids are the ones that will continue their life with a broken family and a broken heart. Think twice before you decide to change your family and your marriage for little sex. Your own children will pay for it and your husband or wife.

Before cheating think that you are changing many evenings and nights for may be just two hours. That you are picking the kisses of someone that desires you, instead of the person who loves you. That you are opting for someone that thinks you are just another one, instead of the person that may be the only one that cares about you. That you are choosing someone that thinks you are hot, instead of the person who think you are the most beautiful person in the world. That you are betraying someone that would die for you and worries about… Read more »

God is Healer….in the event that such a tragedy occurs , God is more than powerful enough to flood grace. …and peace. …..and restoration into the lives of all willing to dwell under His mighty shelter….God is able to restore the years that the locusts have stolen…God is able….and we only becomes victims if we frame the situation through that lense…..God is not finished with you. He was just making it abundantly clear who isn’t allowed in your life from this point forward….Listen to Him and rejoice….Good things are coming your way…

I was cheated on. For most of my 31 year marriage. There was finally an event that gave me the courage to leave. What keeps me going is the fact I now make myself happy. I don’t dwell on the past. Just because one man was an ass doesn’t mean the next will be.

This is where little girls go wrong. They think it’s okay to cheat because something in the relationship didn’t work out their way and then think it solved the problem but they just ended up looking like a complete worthless skank and what’s worse is they walk around with their nose in the air trying to be a grown up and saying their ex is all to blame for their inconsistent ass. I see no value in cheating and it sucks having to clean up a mess someone else made just because they weren’t happy with the person they “loved.”

After all the bullshit i have been through this is exactly how i feel.
You either with me on the front line or get the fuck out my way i am going to fight for me peace however i need to get it.

Growing up with all boys makes you see a different kind of broken heart . Men are just a sensitive but are taught to hide it so they can be manly and strong instead. So theu express it in different ways.

In short…it turns the good men that the bitches be praying for into heartless playa’s. And it’s harder for men to get sex than it is for women and that leaves us stressed out

I no longer trust people enough to even think about ever getting married ever again. My wife cheating on me with some called friends and strangers for 9 years of a 28 years marriage ruined my outlook on live and destroyed my trust.

Believe me it crushes you, it takes a strong woman to build him back up. If she cares enough she will stand by his side to see this through.

I rarely see posts like this for men. And yet I still see those certain people trying to turn it back to the other side. Typical toxicity.

Reminds me of my childhood and the constant undertone of “only men can do wrong”

My man was cheated on his last relationship and I have seen the damage it has done to him… I understand his insecurity it causes him from time to time.. The good thing about us is that we have great communication and respect for each other… I always make sure and show him that i will never be that woman to break his heart once again… We love each other and when there’s love and loyalty trust is easier to regain… After all… Not only him was cheated but so was I.. So we understand each other and balance each… Read more »

There are no “levels” of cheating. Cheating is cheating, secret friendship, dick pics, secret meetings, lying, sneaking around THERE ARE NO LEVELS OF CHEATING. Once you’ve told that first lie or deleted that first email so that your partner doesn’t see it or met up with them in secret YOU have crossed the line. I don’t care if you’re male or female, cheating makes you a scumbag.