I understand this SOOOOOOO much. This is basically me. But what if the good guy who still exists gets hurt from the relationship with a girl cause she took him for granted. Now that hurt still lingers in his mind even if they had some good memories. And it pushes him to the edge and now he feels like a psycho cause he wanted to jump off of that edge. Cause of all of the pain he went through. But no matter what. Even if the pain lingers. He won’t let it change him.

Girls chase bad guys hoping they can change them into good guys. But when it doesn’t happen and they get hurt, they say all guys are the same. But what happened to the actual good guys? They are taken for granted and labeled with the bad guys…

I’d sure like to know where all these men are because they definitely aren’t anywhere near me or been near me for the past 20 some years! They all talk a good talk but can’t walk a good walk when it really comes down to it.

This is very true and describes me completely..unfortunately too many woman have chosen the wrong man and been hurt before they reach you and are afraid to open up and let you in..we have all been hurt and emotionally damaged by the wrong person borh man or female but don’t let it stop you from taking a chance with another that could and would be great for you.I give my 100% to the girl I’m with to make sure they are happy or do everything in my power to make that happen

Where are you? Come find me because the world is also telling/showing me that whores, liars and cheating females are the ones in relationships. They are the females with good, faithful, loving men!

Here is the problem though. I know a lot of women ask for this. And some get it. But a lot end up viewing it as weak. And then go off asking for a guy like that again. Or end up trying to change the guy and make him do things that her friend’s bf’s have done or compare them.

Men like this only exist in fairy tales. I live in the real world.

But having these qualities is not enough. You have to look a certain way to be “attractive,” right superficial world? Gotcha, Roger that. But that truth need not be admitted, guys know.

I agree not all men are thesame…but believing this words I find it ver hard to adjust to it, cos every man I come across are jst liars and I don’t know the word I should use, my past relationships are the seeds in me…they are growing to affect other relationship I might come across, that 100 percent love n trust won’t be there for the next guy in my life cos I don’t want to be hurt any more! good men…faithful men exist tho but finding them is what is difficult

I definitely do not know where those faithful and loyal men are. None of them have crossed my way. Only the ones I have met have broken my heart and make me believe that I wont find the right one

It’s amazing how things can change a person. I had this once and then out of nowhere this Stranger appeared and I think I have come to realize that no matter how long I stay and no matter what I do things will never be like they were. I’m just afraid that if I let go now and let go too soon but then again my heart says 4 years is enough

it’s sad, especially when it’s a new relationship, or in one for a long time and the wound of the past still lingers. It has become a random guessing game for many with fear of what intentions the other may have. We lock our heart and find any reason to push away the people that love us the most. Seeds of doubt and hate take a hold of us. focus only on the little things to feed our reason for hate, and ignoring all the wonderful moments. it’s when we are willing to forgive, cast aside those feeling of hate,… Read more »

All so very well said, not all men cheat not all men disrespect women, also, on the other the coin, not all women cheat either, there’s still good on both sides, if I did not believe that, I woulda given up long ago looking for Miss right, but because I still see good in women, I still look.

I’m going to say this to you ladies. Are you truly ready to be loved every single day? To be said, “good morning beautiful” every time you wake up? To be kissed not so much for a purpose, but for affection? To be treated like a queen, because he wants to be your king? To cherish the world you both walk on? Because to “him,” you are his world. Can you handle such a commitment? Because if you can’t, you might as well go back talking to douche-bags who’ll emotionally fuck you over any chance they get. I can honestly… Read more »

I do believe there are good men out there still…few and far between…but it goes both ways..i truely believe that if they can’t be faithful to you its just the universes way of saying they were not for you…it always hurts but its a new learning experience and makes you much stronger

Still lookin for mine down here in tx! God knows I like em tall and cornfed, well mannered, with tight jeans and boots… guess he’s hiding him so I stop looking and let it happen! ?

True. Not all men. There are still few men who are loyal, faithful and will do everything for the one he trully love. Karamihan nga ung mga good boy ung laging nasasaktan sa bandang uli kasi ung ibang babae pinipili pa ung bad boy tapos pag nasaktan sinasabi lahat mga lalaki manloloko. Huwag ganon, nasaan ang hustiya. 🙁

I dont think so men can do it with all his heart there is always a ground for cheating, hurting her, you always have your own priority except giving quality time with her. Most of the time you are only good in saying it but not in action.

I don’t know…maybe previous generations still know the value of love and respect. Generation nowadays, I look left and right, guys aren’t the same as men before. You’ll be surprised how decent and loyal they may seem to their gfs but still able to do things behind their back. I know, I work with 80 guys of all ages. I’m millenial, I prefer dates, phone calls and genuine communication. People these days are all about texting and just talking. Hardly see actual dates anymore.

i wish i can find one who wouldn’t do all those dreadful things to me anymore. i wish ill find a man who would truly love me. someone who would help me escape this darkness im in. 🙁

Really annoys me when women make generalized statements like “I hate men” or “Men are pigs” because it means you’re grouping me in with all those other assholes and the fact is, I’m just NOT like that… as a matter of fact, I’m just as disgusted with those men are as you are BECAUSE they’re presenting themselves in that manner and making it hard for the rest of us to earn your respect and trust…

I believe in this 100% because not only do I love, respect, adore and ultimately care for a female when I’m in a relationship because a girl is my #1 priority no matter what so this pretty much describes me and the way I am guess I’m still looking and waiting for that special someone to find their way to me.