But if the light bulb keeps burning out over & over again then there could be an electrical problem & you could end in a fire! Time to replace system or get new house!

very true the only real issue between me and my ex is communication and distance we had our fair share of issues like everyone else in a relationship or marriage I wanted to fix things but she didn’t u can’t force someone to be with u no matter what u can’t force.they have to want to be with u pt blank

Yes communication is so so important. Cause you move on to someone else and they will still have issues as well as you. You can’t run away from your self. You have to make the change and learn sacrifice.

I completely see the meaning in this.. but generally u don’t fix a lightbulb.. u replace it.. a burnt out light bulb can’t be fixed so a new one is put in its place.. not saying that’s what to do in a relationship but.. well there it is

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‘Only when or if the house is filled with too many deadly toxins, that you find should have been cleared out, before you began to reside . Well that would be good reason to go elsewhere ‘

This the dumbest analogy i seen in awhile. How tf u fix a lightbulb? You dont. U replace the lightbulb. Im disappointed in this page for this one. Their post usually on point. But this.. this dumb shit make em lose all credibility.

Very true but my ex hubby didn’t want to fix things between us and just want’s to end it all about 6 mnths b4 we should be getting married of this year NOT like me who did everything ………???
However my heart still only belongs to one prince unless another prince walks down my parh some day ??

Some people put up a wall around the fixture and the door to the store so it can’t be fixed no matter how hard you try to hold a light or lantern for them to see that you are solid and there for them. Eventually you get tired of holding the lantern and taking down one wall to find another one in its place. One day you realize you are holding a light in the yard and you can’t get inside the house and your only talking to yourself- it takes two.

I do not think this analogy actually makes sense. I would say if a roof starts leaking. Fixing a lightbulb is just stupid. That’s like finding out your partner grabs pussies without consent replace that shit ?

Not once in my life have I ever fixed a lightbulb. I’ve changed many, but never fixed one. Would love to smash one at the moment.

This is so true. Too many people tend to walk away from relationships instead of trying to work through the dark parts.

If you truly love someone, be the lightbulb. Talk, figure out what’s broken and fix it. Don’t be the buyer and just toss it away.

We are all human, we make mistakes, say things that are said in the heat of the moment. We are allowed to make mistakes, what defines us from there is how those mistakes are addressed or fixed. Be strong, and communicate!

COMMUNICATION IS KEY! ?

Unless the lightbulb shorted because it went crazy and started a fire and burned the whole house down.

???

Then you bulldoze the whole house, build a 4 unit complex, live in one, rent out the other 3 and have passive income.

#ProblemSolving

Yeah but if they keep burning out then the house may need rewiring and that can become expensive so new house sometimes is a better option

This is true, but the only way you can fix things is if Both parts are in love and are willing to fix it. But if it’s just a one sided situation then it’s best to just let it go

You have to find someone who will stay with you no matter what happens. There’s gonna be shit happens bc life is that way if you live it out of a bubble. You have to get with someone you can trust. That has your back. It’s hard to find good folks in this world. The good ones are usually damaged. But they’ll stand by your side in the storm. They been in storms their whole life.

This is so true…only if this was the case..when the going gets tough..the tough are supposed to get going..not give up and turn their attention elsewhere..communication is so important and critical is todays world

Unless every light in the house flickers on and off constantly and calls you names and puts you down. Than you buy a new house and don’t warn the new inhabitants of your old house and just sit back and watch the chaos unfold

But you can’t “fix” a burnt out light bulb you can only remove it and replace it. Which is really what you should do to a burnt out relationship.

But sometimes, the lightbulb burns out because the electrical work was done wrong and termites are eating the entire structure making it completely unstable and so you definitely need to buy a new house before the house kills you. Just sayin.

Bad comparison very bad, #1 if the lightbulb keep burning out you fix the system. Also you can’t compare a death object with a human relationships. You can’t expect to fix a broken piece of glass right? It is broken you can’t fix it, it may cut you. You can generalize either. Sorry horrible theory, if you aren’t happy and stop loving that house, yes you go and buy a new house. Also maybe you never pick that house, if someone else did it for you, yes please go and get a new house that you like and love.