No no no. Disagree with this statement completely. Never “wait” for someone. They will only take advantage of your dumb ass.

Yeah I have to argue this here:

There was a girl i really wanted and I refused to give up because she had made me feel like she felt the same. Til she slowly started not reply anymore, but still swore she felt the same. So I still didnt give up. Then it gets to the point where she dont text no more, why shouldnt I have given up on her again?

I beg to differ. U can only wait so long. Sometimes u just got to realize that if they don’t see how amazing u are, then move on! There is someone else out there just waiting just like u, looking for someone like u. And if u keep waiting for that one person that doesn’t give a flying shit about u and keeps u waiting on the back burner, honey, well, you’re never gonna meet your “one.” You’re too busy pining after someone that doesn’t deserve u. Time to realize that yes u can still care for them, but u… Read more »

I dont give up on someone that i really love if here is a temporary season in their lives..not everyone is at the same stage..we are not finished products we are still in the process to growth..one of caracteristic of love is being patient

Better to let it go, give it a break, live your life. Find joy in friends, family, children. Set your mind free. and If it’s meant to be, the love will return to you someday

Never give up on someone u really want??? How about saying that someone dun even want you at all….. Dun pursue untill u even lost your soul…… There are times in life u just have to give the thing u wan the most….. Not becos u easily give up….. But rather not to lose respect to both the other party n yourself…..

Sounds like a great way to be introduced to the words “restraining order.”

People aren’t a possession that you can just pursue and force to like you. If they want to be with you, they will.

You can’t force anything unless if it’s truly meant to be. That is something I definitely learned. And some times you have to give up on them when they’ve given up on you… what your heart really desires, is really not always what is truly best for you.

Part of me feels this way, and part of me does not. Even though he basically cheated, left me, I had not choice but to file for divorce, and he has remarried, I know I need to not think about and move on. It just hurts to know I tool my vows seriously and cared and loved him long after I should have and he never really cared and the OW probably thinks she has won. The truth is they both will realize, in time, that karma stinks.

I’m gonna probably take some flack for saying this, but I gotta say it anyway: I don’t accept most clichés simply because they sound good. This particular cliche sounds very good on the surface, but the truth is this: no matter how much I love, respect, honor, yearn for, miss , have been prophesied to about someone I am smitten by, if that person isn’t good FOR me (in a wholesome way), I’m letting that person go! Period! Sometimes we fall in love with bad (character, morals , etc) people, and they simply don’t complement our character or lifestyle. And… Read more »

“Nawl man!” Never ever give up on love..Who you telling about the difficult situation and circumstances involved in the wait? Question is will it be “really” worth it? I believe so.

You mean to say…. Never give up on the person who gave up on you? You must be out of your mind.

You can’t force anything on someone if they were meant to be in your life they would be…Don’t chase the wind or you’ll lose their respect.

Hmmmm….I’m not sure about this. Sometimes you can be waiting for the wrong person or waiting in vain. What if that person is with someone else or just doesn’t want to be in a relationship? I think this statement can give false hope or feed bad decisions. AND the mere fact you are waiting…doesn’t that imply they have turned away from or are not into YOU?

Sorry, how long you should wait! It is not worth it if someone is finding excuses, we learned if someone loves or want someone will never break her heart nor torture her with waiting ,,,,

Thats so deep though!!
We just get tired of chasing something that had quite frankly swept into the air !! So what’s the point ?
After all we keep quoting “if it’s Meant to be it will happen,”

I thought this too and waited way too long and got way too hurt by the whole thing. No regrets though but I waited for someone who really wasn’t worth it in the end. Waiting could be good but cutting your losses is also a good thing.

Sometimes you have to just let go if the other person isn’t feeling it. No matter how much you really want someone there’s no point holding on to someone if they don’t feel the same. If it’s meant to be life will find a way of making it happen 🙂

Sometimes what you really want isn’t the best thing for you. Just like someone who is addicted to drugs, you can become addicted to a person that is not the right person for you. That does not make the feelings or pain any less real, but it will make you regret holding on and waiting something that is not meant to be.

Once you figure out that she only gives you despair, you’ll know she doesn’t worth your effort anymore, and it’s time to forget and get a life.
Never bitching around and hold things which makes you sad, and that’s how I feel now as I finally know how hopeless I would be if I still love a person who dumped me like a trash.

I never gave up, until I found out she was already taken. After that, I just decided to let someone else come to me if that even happens in my lifetime

MOST times you have to give up on them when they’ve given up on YOU!!! No sense in holding on to old memories when “the love of YOUR LIFE” has truly DECIDED to move on!!! I DO NOT believe in letting go easily but you CANNOT hold on to someone who doesn’t VALUE YOU!!! It’s a 2 way street!!!

But never forgot to love yourself first. No point on fighting for someone if they don’t willing to do the same. It takes two person to make it work.